Chastity reduces *physical* desire

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    Maybe this should be FAQ newbie stuff but I've not seen bit discussed much. Or maybe this is just me...

    If I went a week or two without any orgasm or attention to my penis I'd be so frustrated I'd have a constant frustrated boner.

    If I'm locked in chastity, although my mental desire for women everywhere and to provide sub sexual service increases my physical desire decreases. After only about a week + I notice my balls are softer and my nightime erections are less frequent and weaker after about 2 or 3 weeks this then plateaus at this reduced levels. If suddenly demanded to be released and performed I don't think I could without Viagra, although my service has never been tested/required like that

    I'm not complaining, I like this.

    it makes it more comfortable at night and more submissive. But I've not seen much discussion of long term chastity reducing physical libido. The gap in the ring doesn't restrict cord blood flow, so I don't think it's related to ring size. I do use ultrashort to shrink.

    Is this reduction effect just me?
     
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    Maybe I should add... I don't find orgasm denial a problem due to reduced physical desire, I would like to cum but it's perfectly manageable to go indefinitely without orgasm while in chastity, although that would be just impossible if I was denied and not locked.
     
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    After about 3 weeks without being unlocked everything settles down for me somehow.

    I often find the horny feelings unbearable, but it's my own fault as I might look at porn or fantasize.

    If I focus on work or reading/writing (AKA being busy) then I barely notice being locked.

    I also find my arousal spikes dramatically when my KH and I fool around. I can go from zero aroused to edged and back again very rapidly (while staying caged).
     
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    I too find after about 2 or 3 months the physical desire to have an erection or ejaculate drops right off.
    When involved sexually with my wife providing her oral..i seem to "get off" in my head and enjoy Her orgasms.

    Of course with that said If given the opportunity to cum i would take it. :D
     
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    I think it differs person to person, for me I don’t get a drop, but I am not completely denied. I am not permitted penile stimulation, but madam does allow me anal stimulation.
     
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