Locktober, No Nut November... but Denial December?

Only did it once in 2023… only Locktober… it was a complete game changer … changed everything. We both learned so much about our real feelings about chastity…

 

Just Another Month January.
Forget About It February.
Maybe Next Month March.
Asexual April
May Never Happen Again.
Jiggle while Locked June
July There While I Laugh
All Locked August
Remember Seeing It? September

 

I voted for Oct only. A month, any month is about the limit for wife and I. She likes sex too much so even a month is usually pushing it. Locked or not

 

My Wife does what she wants with her property, so while I’m locked all the time, she will unlock to play or tease as she sees fit. She’ll threaten me with months on end of staying locked, but I think she gets bored of that. Now orgasm denial, she definitely enjoys that more than just locking for X amount of days without unlocks.
That’s a good thing for me, she grants a stretch at least once a week usually, the last couple months it’s been a Saturday night event, an oiled handjob for teasing for 15-20 mins till I’m exhausted from being edged and then back in the cage till next week

 

Fantastic

That's me too

 

Hey whatever the keyholder decides is what we aim for.

Although sometimes life stressors can get in the way and ruin the fun of Chastity and that time of year can be rife with those stressors but I've done it a few times.

 

I have yet to go more than a few days due to discomfort. I really want to do Locktober, but I have to be able to wear the cage long term. I am seriously working towards that goal. If I can do a Locktober, I’ll gladly try for more.

 

Love this lol

 

I AM kinda hoping to be forced into it this year, though.

 

Last year was our first ever Locktober and it was a mixed experience. Our wedding was coming up so there was a lot of stress and anxiety. So, naturally, intimacy was lower than usual.

But now that things are back to normal and she has gotten much more into chastity I'm hoping for longer term play and another shot at Locktober. Given her recent enthusiasm, maybe I shouldn't mention No-vember to her just in case.

 

There's no real option for "this is not my choice", so I didn't choose anything.

Am I caged all the time? Yes. Been 24/7 for years.

But does that mean I get to chose when it comes off or when I cum? Nope.

Do I get to cum? Yes. Usually when my wife decides she wants real intercourse, then I can finish (most of the time). Because that's what she wants.

But what does that mean for Oct/Nov/Dec? Who knows from year to year. I'm definitely going to in a cage. Will it come off? Probably (my wife usually can't go a full 3 months without it). It does kind of help our anniversary is in October and she's enough of a romantic to want the "anniversary" dinner followed by fun.

 

You can join me in the, " I don't care" corner of the room.

 

I'm down to 3 monthly orgasms. One this year so far. But yes I'll probably plead with her not to allow me an orgasm in Oct if she's not mindful of it. I still like the community spirit of it and want us to be part of it. It's never easy but a month is just not that intimidating to me now. Nov and Dec, that's oor wee secret lads shoosht.

 

Since I'm locking myself, I was only able to accomplish half of Loctober before I succumbed to temptation. I've heard of No Nut November, but not Denial December. Currently, I'm self-locked and have restrained myself from full orgasms. I've done this by self-milking and ruined orgasms. I'm really enjoying tease and denial by edging myself. I've been more successful this time than last Loctober.

 

Those things seem to be catch phrases for when you just start. After locked becomes your default status it just becomes life. Sooner or later I'd like to try three months straight maybe in no hurry to do so however.

 

We're just playing with this stuff and enjoying the ride. We didn't have any board meetings too sort out policies we'd stick to every year.