Chastity is HARD! (pun intended) so I was thinking about maybe could we, as a community, set up a sponsor type program like they do with AA? Someone that's been in chastity for a serious length of time takes a fledgling under their wing to help guide them? Be there for them when needed? Thoughts?
I would have thought members of Chastity Mansion, apart from the KH, already acts as the sponsor by imparting their knowledge and experience
I agree but I think the OP was looking more for a mentor to message privately and discuss what can be expected. Not sure what I think but I do know that a recent spate of sleepless nights and grumpiness combined with a discussion here made things emotionally very hard over the last week. Not entirely related to chastity, perhaps. But it may be. This being my first session over 27 hours (now north of 50 days) means that, for me, everything is still a first and thus surprising. What is normal, what is to be expected? What is a danger sign? I wouldn't feel comfortable raising every question I have here, I would be spamming this place with posts and threads! As a newbie I like to keep relatively controlled in a new space. On that basis, and having already opened up too much to my Holder (I dialled it back when I realised), I can see why a mentor might be useful.