Comments on Profile Post by justme6819

Thank you. I like to think so

my wife no longer enjoys being my key holder. She does allow me to lock up but only at my bidding

Perhaps she might learn to enjoy it again at some point? I’ve taken breaks now and then in the past.

That is something I am hoping for as well Time will tell. I still am in love with her

Sometimes we just need space to understand and find our own happiness in it

We have a challenging situation. I’m much older than she is but my sex drive is higher as well.

The biggest thing is it is my kink that I brought into the relationship. My last relationship failed because she caught me wearing my cage and she thought I was some sexual deviant.

This time I made her aware and she said she would try it. after a while she said it just wasn't her thing but if I wanted to lock up that was fine some I continue to self lock. I cannot stop. I cannot even come up with a good reason other than I like it.

Perhaps you can revisit your request at some point. Be sweet to her. Anticipate her needs. Keep your request to lock you fairly straight forward. My husband presented the idea to me. He has a higher sex drive and he wanted me to have sex only when I wanted it. It became less of a chore and something that made sense for my own sexual comfort level.

Thank you I will keep that in mind especially since this is my kink and not hers as much. Just like most women they are not keen to looking up their men.