Chastity without a device?

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Miss_Red_Dragon, Mar 29, 2013.

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Have you been kept chaste without wearing a chastity device?

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    #26 latexbound, Apr 2, 2013
    The presence of a device is an important reminder of being in a relationship and controlled 24/7. And without it I couldn't leave things alone...... ;-)
     
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    #28 buzz, Apr 3, 2013
    ....and so am I :)

    Still ironing out some niggles but we're getting there and should soon have things in position to allow full time wear, in fact I'm rather hoping we've cracked it this time.
     
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    #29 TXMistress1986, Apr 6, 2013
    I wouldn't trust my slave, because men have a natural instinct to get off...If you have that amount of trust, wonderful.... I just couldnt see myself allowing it, your a brave women.
     
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    #30 Miss_Red_Dragon, Apr 7, 2013
    It is a new experience for me to have that level of trust, it's not been that way in the past with previous subs. In the situation we were in I had to allow him some time out of the device to heal. I am still happier with him locked tho!
     
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    #31 Billus, Apr 7, 2013
    No device is 100%, just like a wedding ring can't prevent infidelity. But both are reminders or focus points to help the mind if the flesh should weaken. I've backslid in terms of playing with my little thing at times, but I'm currently approaching eight months with no orgasms. I've only been locked 24/7 for the past four.
     
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    #32 lockit, Apr 8, 2013
    Hi I see you have a few devices . What one have been locked in 24/7 for 4 months. Just curious do you remove it for cleaning?
     
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    #33 Billus, Apr 8, 2013
    I've only worn the Jailbird for the past two years or so (off and on). It has a very open design compared to a CB6Ks, so hygiene is much less of a problem. Other than showering (I shave with it on as well), all I do is run a cotton swab behind the glans now and then to get the white crud off. I have an old toothbrush in the shower that I use to clean the bars of the cage. Because it's stainless steel, it doesn't get all gummy like plastic.

    So it's been on since Dec. 6th, and has not been removed for any reason.
     
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    #34 Caged Wolf, Apr 8, 2013
    Mistress's oficiall collared me this past weekend, now I have a second reminder to strenghen my will power. Facing disciple from 2 Mistress's for failing them is NOT something I plan to do!
     
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    #35 dereknor, Apr 29, 2013
    I have always been chaste without a device. I got a chastity device, but that thing wouldnt stop me from cumming if I really wanted to cum. It all starts in the head. I even managed to be chaste for 6 month without a device. My mistress always knew that I didnt cum. And why should I cheat? After orgasm I loose interest in chastity, so why should I cum and then just pretend that I havent cum. I would cheat myself with it. And I also change a lot after chastity, so my mistress would instantly know from my reactions that I have cum.

    For me, chastity without device is the only thing that really works. But I think everyone is different ;)
     
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    #36 sissy eve, May 15, 2013
    I wouldnt be able to resist temptaion of not playing with my little friend :spank:
     
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    #37 Caged Wolf, May 16, 2013
    The temptation is always there, for me the real strenght is to realize it and keep true to the promises I made to my Mistress's. If I can't keep a simple promise like not playing with myself, then I don't deserve to be able to serve them...

    That being said, sometimes it's hard (pun intended) to resist.... But I manage.
     
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    #38 sub2mgi, May 20, 2013
    Quite the opposite in my opinion...The first 3-4 days I need to be locked. After that the mentality sets in and I am good to go without it.
     
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    #39 sub2mgi, May 20, 2013
    I don't know that fetishizing the device is ubiquitous though. It certainly has no erotic charge for me.
     
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    #40 Dumb1, May 20, 2013
    as has been said many times "everyone is different"
     
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    #41 titearse, Jun 8, 2013
    i have a Master who live 200 miles away. Master controls my orgasms, and trusts me to be honest and advise of failings. The reason this trust is there, he will walk away and never contact me again if i am not honest.

    If the trust was there, and your sub does say he knows the difference between musn't and can't. You have a good sub there.
     
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