The Journey to Chastity

We know

 

Everything is going great, thanks for asking. Bill and I took off on an unexpected vacation. He had 40 hours of personal time he had to take before the end of the year or lose it. So rather then sitting around the house we drove up to Denver to visit friends and extended family. We will be driving home on Tuesday weather permitting.

Last night I did an inspection of Bill's QK and noticed that this cold weather shriveled up Bills penis into an "inny"

So "Inny" has become my new nickname for him while we are here visiting.

He was very embarrassed this morning when I called him this infront of the waitress this morning

What I dread is all the work when I get home. This fiscal cliff shit and tax increases impact most of my clients and we are all in limbo waiting to see what happens.

Hope everyone has a great New Year!!!

 

Yes, they did reach an agreement, now I'm waiting for the tax experts upstairs to explain to me what this all means to my clients and how I can manage their portfolios.

Today is the 1st day I've been in the office for 2 weeks so have a lot of catching up to do.

Bill and I had a great time away. Spent a few days outside of Denver with family and then drove to Laughlin NV for New Years and he got his first release for 2013 (3 weeks in chastity).

When we started our journey 5 years ago his release would typically be once a week.

Then over the past year we (I) slowly started to extend it to 2 and even 3 weeks.

At first Bill would whine about this but of course when he did I just extended it a few more days and he quickly caught on that he needed to keep his trap shut.

So for one of my goals for 2013 is to allow Bill only 12 orgasms for the entire year.

(Wow I'm getting real wet and hot right now as I shared this here)

 

This is totally weird as it's the first time it has actually happened to me, but as I was sharing the fact that I was only going to allow Bill only 12 orgasms a month in my last post I came close to almost having one myself.

One of my favorite "teases" with Bill is my weekly inspection on Sunday mornings.

After Bill gets up he makes a quick pot of coffee, brings me a cup and then takes a shower.

I typically have Bill waxed down there every 6 weeks at my nail saloon so the first 4 weeks after his waxing he is required to shave away any new growth. (Someday I'll post how I totally embarrassed Bill there for his first waxing)

Then after his shower he comes out for his inspection.

I make sure that the security screw is tight and wasn't tampered with on his QK, look for any hair growth front and back and tease him just enough so he starts expanding outside of his cage.

He then goes back to the bathroom and gets the supplies he needs to shave my legs, underarms and private area.

After my shave I get a slow massage head to toe and after I am satisfied with that he begins the routine of writing out the alphabet with his tongue between my legs.

He starts off real slow as I try to follow along

A - B - C - D - E- F- G....

By M I am typically totally soaked and by R by body begins quivering and I lose my place.

A few moments after this comes my 1st Big O!!!

This now got me thinking of starting some sort of scorecard for 2013

I'm sure it would look something like this

Kelli - 1000 / Bill - 12

Happy New Year everyone

 

Sis is a little fearful at this point to follow this track as she still has her husband on a 7 to 10 day chastity schedule and he isn't as submissive as Bill.

My other GF's that know about our arrangement and have "tried" it have never made a commitment to the journey as I have, so no.

And that is the disconnect I think as "tried" is not a commitment

To be totally successful in this journey you MUST be 100% committed, it is NOT a game (at least it isn't to me any longer)

 

Things are getting busy with tax session here so if and when I get a chance I’ll be checking in. Also glad the forum is back up.

Today will share with you the second time I outed Bill

First off I am very particular about my feet.

I NEVER walk barefoot, even in my shower and I HATE anyone touching them, even Bill.

However I do make one exception and that is with my pedicurist.

She is a very petit Korean, manages her own shop and we have become close friends.

She started doing waxing in a small room in the back of her shop a couple years ago, so after my pedicure I’d get a complete body wax.

During my second waxing I asked her if she waxed men.

She related that she had done a few, however she was frightened to do others because of sexual advances.

I giggled and said, “You have nothing to worry about with my husband”

She had a slight blush on her face and asked, “You want Bill waxed?”

I said sure, that I hated him having underarm and pubic hair and that he shaved himself on a weekly basis.

I then told her “You have nothing to worry about Bill, I have him in a dick lock” and explained his chastity device.

She seemed intrigued commenting that she would love to have her husband in one but knew that he would never play along.

We then discussed our plan.

The next weekend Bill was walking around the house in bare feet and I commented that his feet looked disgusting and that I was taking him with me to my pedicurist.

I had my feet done first as we finalized my outing, while Bill read some of the magazines in the waiting area.

Then it was Bill’s turn.

I sat next to Bill and towards the end of his pedicure she asked Bill “You’re a big strong man, can you do me a favor and move a couple boxes in my studio before you leave?”

As Bill flexed his arm he said “of course”

As he was getting up from the chair I walked behind we were led into the waxing room. I closed the door behind.

Bill then immediately turned toward me, knowing something was up.

I said “Bill, I need you to get undressed as you will also be getting a waxing today”, as the look of fear raced across his face.

He complied and as his pants and panties came off my pedicurist gave out a slight giggle commenting, “Oh how small and cute, lay down here on the table and I’ll get started. Kelli I’ll see you later”

“You’re leaving?” Bill questioned red-faced.

Off course I am I explained. You’re in good hands and I have some shopping to do.

After spending a couple hours at the neighborhood Kowl’s I returned finding Bill seating in the waiting area.

Walking in I was greeted with a few other giggles and grins from the other gals while Bill quickly made a quick exit out the door.

Bill has become more committed to his shaving duties since, however I still send him back every couple months for touch-up.

 

None at all, she is very fearful of even bringing the subject up with him.

However we do discuss the possibilities occasionally while I'm there

 

More moving parts? <grin>

 

Personally I don't like to label our relationship as being "femdom" as it conjures up things that I personally I am not comfortable with, instead i prefer the the term FLR, female lead relationship. I decide what goes on in our financial and sexual lives and outside of that Bill makes the other decisions. Often these overlap and we then discuss and come to an agreement.

I guess what I am trying to say here is that I fell in love with my husband because of his dominate side in providing security for our family and I never want to give that up. However it has become evident in our marriage that he can be wasteful on his spending habits and he has a lot of sexual fantasies that I would NEVER approve or be a part of.

Therefore to feel secure in our relationship I control those aspects of our lives.