Extremely Frustrated

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    The title says it all. I spent my first full night in my new Bidrlocked classic. It wasn't bad at all when I went to bed, went to sleep just fine. The two beers didn't hurt. But about 3:30 am, I woke up with the most brutally repressed erection. This is such a helpless feeling, there was absolutely no way I could get any relief. I have 50 ml syringe, so I repeatedly filled it with cold water and injected it through the holes and under the band. Tomorrow, I will have a bucket of ice water prepared, and squirt that in if it as bad as it was last night. I am sure all you guys out there went through this exact same experience. Let me know anything I can do to help, either to relieve the erection, or to improve my dispostion.

    On the positive side, I suppose, this is confirmation the Biddlocked device is 100% secure, there is no way to get it off, there is no way to stimulate myself, and it absolutely prevents a full erection. Small comfort, but if this was being done for Keyholder or Mistress, I am sure She would be satisfied, and completely entertained by my discomfort. I am quickly moving toward being willing to negotiate, and I have been in chastity only 5 days.

    Regards.
     
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    My husband tells me the best thing to do when a nocturnal erection attempt occurs and wakes him up is just lie there quietly and wait for it to subside. It does.

    Early in our relationship, he asked me to take it off after this happened. I told him no. As you can see, he adjusted.
     
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    I still occasionally wake up in pretty serious pain from a caged, wannabe erection, and for me the best relief comes from getting up and moving around, letting gravity help a bit.
     
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    I use to find going for a pee did the trick, although after a while the night time erections should fade away.
     
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    Ice cold water.
     
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    I've been in chastity for 15 days as of today and still get the most painful night time erections. This last week tho they seemed to mellow out quicker. Up until the last few days I wouldn't be able to make my cock go down and I would be in tremendous pain fo about a half hour before it would subside and I could go back to bed. Now after 10 mins I can go back to bed and I am soft again. People say if gets better the longer u wear the device but I am so frustrated as of today that I don't know how much longer I can wear it. Madame was originally only going to keep me chaste for 5 days but after her letting me fuck her and not allowing me to cum she has decided to see how much longer I can go for. Today really seems like the hardest day ao far to get thru tho.
     
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    On Wednesday, I'll have hit the three month mark locked up. Talk about frustrated! :)

    deena
     
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    Congratulations, deena. I am so happy for you!!
     
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    O can't imagine going that long. Like I said I thought this was going to be for five days but since Madame figured out that she can still use my cock and just keep denying me orgasm I'm starting to get scared. I must be so sensitive now that I can't imagine she will be able to use my cock much without me cumming. Being chaste turns me on so much but I am so horny all day everyday.
     
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    I never felt pain from nighttime erections while locked up. It was just pressure, very frustrating pressure. In some ways, I preferred laying in bed feeling my cock trying to grow larger than the cage would allow than laying there completely soft. It kept me aware of what I was doing and kept the mental thrill alive.
     
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    Lucky you Simpletwist, It can be quite painful.
     
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    simple, that will change once you get your KTB. you will definitely have pain from nighttime erections. The good news is that with the KTB your erection attempt will not last very long.
     
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    It's a daunting thought, the impending KTB. It's certainly going to be unlike anything else I've ever experienced.
     
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    2inch chasity,its for my own good

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    The kbt sounds good for punishment ,just reading bits on it i would not want it on me .i have anti pull out pins for my qk very painfull wow a kbt
     
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    The KTB is magic!! And it is amazingly effective at stopping erections just as they start!
     
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