FemDom Keyholder in SF Seeking Video-Friendly Submissive(s)

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    Hi there,

    I dove in with both feet into the forums, but I also want to post my own introduction.

    Some of you already know me from Fetlife or other sites where I am pretty prolific. Though I don't get much time at the keyboard, websites like this are how I reward myself when I finish editing a movie. There is often a long lag time as a new film renders out, so I like to check out the online world, stir up mischief and flirt.


    I am open to a long term relationship or flings as long as there are model releases involved.

    I'm currently single and keyholding for one person (my camerabitch in the Pacific Northwest). We meet up a few times a year to play in person and I find that is a dynamic that helps me enjoy long distance training.


    Online-only leaves me feeling cold and used. If you are seeking online keyholding, you better be interesting, flexible and able to meet at least once a year in person. You should think carefully about what you can provide at a distance that represents actual service and submission... instead of just more work for me and emails to respond to.


    I'm college educated and own my own house. Debt free. No kids. Never married (not yet, anyway).

    However, I am evacuated from my ranch home because of a natural disaster. FEMA says it will be 2 more years before I can go back and I am living with friends in San Francisco, CA until this can be resolved.



    During all this time, my main outlet is MAKING KINKY MOVIES.

    I watched all the femdom out there online and it left me feeling kinda grossed out. No wonder vanilla women don't think bdsm is any fun... most of the models in our "femdom" porn aren't enjoying it either! Tired of bored-looking or disgusted models going through the motions, I started making my own movies.

    Disguises are just fine, but model releases are still required. This is a great way to test our chemistry towards a relationship, since I don't do private sessions and thus don't have a firm "pro/personal" divide... as far as I am concerned, it is ALL personal. That's the only way for it to be real. That's where the magic comes from.

    Now that I am single and have a LOT of time on my hands because of the evacuation, I have been making more and more movies with lifestyle kinksters. I don't use scripts and I don't care if you are thick or thin. What matters to me is your AUTHENTICITY.

    That's the part that can't be faked, borrowed or bought. That's the part that makes my site different.


    Here or fetlife is a great place to email me about being a model. Priority goes to those who can help cover the cost of renting the dungeon space or studio for our playtime, since I cannot host from our temporary apartment full of boxes.

    Care to join me on this journey?

    Join the site at http://www.AliceInBondageLand.com - or email me about playing or keyholding for real if this ressonates with you
     
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    I'd be happy just to meet a woman like this in the UK. Not that I'd be into being recognised.
     
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    Disguises are fine... unfortunately I haven't perfected my transporter technology yet. I am watching a pretty fascinating documentary on the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle... so I'm closer and closer to the "compensator". :)

    Oops, my geek is showing.
     
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    Wished you lived in Texas. I'd be up for it. Love your videos and pictures.
     
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    Thanks for the Texas shout-out. I don't think I could handle living somewhere that conservative, but if you want an excuse for a kinky vacation, come west young man. :)
     
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    I live in Denton. It's like Austin, but even more liberal. But sounds good!
     
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    Denton, denton rah rah rah! Yay Denton!

    http://www.alicia-logic.com/capsimages/rhps_007Denton.jpg

    Wow... RHPS is really my only point of reference for Denton. I didn't even know what state it is in, since I always associated it with Ohio.

    Come to San Francisco! :) It may or may not be more liberal but it is where I am.
     
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    Yes, Denton in RHPS is the Denton, Texas I live in! Got their inspiration from it reportedly, so they put it in Ohio. Not gonna lie, I like it here. It's cheap. That's my main reason of staying. Can't beat a two story house on an acre for $125,000. Texas isn't all hicks and redneck conservatives. Denton County consistently votes blue. *wink* When Perry went to visit UNT, he got heckled and got all mad, saying "Being liberal is cool...now!" Hahaha.
     
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    Fun times. :) Glad to hear there is mischief brewing in Texas now.
     
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    How much are we talking about in rent?
     
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    I pay $300 per half day of use for a private dungeon space owned by a retired woman. That gets us access to all the toys and crossdressing clothing there (in addition to my own gear collection in a storage locker nearby), plus permission to ceiling mount my lights.The two other dungeon spaces in San Francisco rent for $200 per hour and $120 per hour so I feel like that's a good deal on a chunk of time that is truly significant. About the same cost as a hotel, but without the sleazy vibe and access to a ton of incredible toys on top of that. :)

    I would much rather spend a day getting to know someone and create a deep, intense connection instead of messing around with hourly submissives.

    By the same token, I would MUCH rather get 1 hour of incredible, intimate, yummy footage then 4 hours of crap.

    I hope that eventually the site does make money, but I am also in this to change the way femdom is shown in porn/kink/fetish movies. I'm sick of bored or disgusted-looking models going through the motions and I want to feature real people doing what they really enjoy. I believe that, in time, a site like that will find a strong and loyal audience. :)

    ... until then, I sink most of my money and time into building it. :-D
     
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    I am still grasping at what exactly your concept is ? I understand real players is key but are you wanting sissy's or just male subs into BDSM play and lifestyle? Chastity devices? Pegging?

    Sincerely,
    A Sissy Slave
     
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    Hi there Sissy Slave,

    My focus is on the kind of play that turns me on. If I am going to make a website and spend all this time on it, and it may or may not make money, then it better be about stuff that I actually LIKE. :)

    I have a huge amount of active model calls out right now, from a crossdressing Dorothy from Wizard of Oz (with me painted as a the Wicked Witch, and a little cock-cozy and leash to create a kinky "Toto"), to football players getting pegged by cheerleaders. I love roleplaying and dress up, but I never ever want to film a fake female orgasm. Does that make more sense?

    My favorite kinks these days are crossdressing, chastity, strap-on, mummification, extreme bondage (doing a full body fiberglass encasement scene at the Wicked Grounds Summer Fun Fair next weekend), and public bondage/humiliation/tourism. As Precious would say "don't bore me" - but please do inspire me!

    I am looking to find love, cause trouble and make footage with friends. By focusing on what is authentically fun and kinky for the real people involved, I hope to avoid the "bored looking model" trope that irritates and turns me off about most online femdom movies.

    Does that make more sense?

    Cheerfully,
    = Alice

    http://www.aliceinbondageland.com for examples of what I have made so far... Alice in Sissy Land is my next project, since crossdressing/sissy/gender transformation is my biggest personal fetish.
     
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