New and wanting to experiment

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    Hi I'm new to all this and I have the mind set to go all in or not at all. I just bought my first cage and wanting to find a key holder. To be up front tho I'm looking for someone willing to do for free tho.
     
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    What does all in mean to you? You might want to start slow, self lock for longer and longer and see how it goes. If you are alone, be your own key holder. Then perhaps if and when you have a partner, be upfront with them about your need for their involvement. An unpaid key holder might be hard to find and they may end up being abusive. Be careful.

    In any case...I wish you good times in the present and future.
     
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    Hello and welcome. Good luck
     
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    Hello and Welcome to the community, wishing you all the best in your future endeavours.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion and good luck.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy being part of our community.
     
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    Great advice, I would self lock for a bit first while you get used to it, possibly get one of those kitchen time lock boxes to keep the key locked up
     
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