Caged orgasm VS Ruined orgasm

I actually find coming in the cage 50-75% as good as a normal orgasm however the drop after is worse.

 

Not in the cage but I imagine the drop would be minimal

 

This ^

It's like a ruined orgasm but with a pretty significant drop and I hate it. It's miserable. The "drop" isn't even a horny relief, it's more like it makes you want out MORE.

 

Yeah its more a pissed off why am I doing this? I hate this, I want out lol

 

100%

 

After several years not being allowed to come any other way, my brain has been rewired, and now my "cagegasms" are amazing, toe-curling, intense orgasms. They may even be better than what I used to have, but I'll never get an opportunity to compare.

 

This basically says it.

 

I’ve had a few different kinds of caged orgasms over the years of cage life, and had both ruins and full.
The wand works pretty quickly and as long as it’s removed fast enough, it’s a ruin just as any other, it just leaves me hornier and more desperate for an erection. We’ve used the wand to give a full O as well, and it does seem to give me worse drop than a full from a handjob.
I’ve also had them from humping on my Wife’s bottom, it’s the same experience as the wand, if I stop moving just before tipping over the edge of cumming, it’s just a ruin, and she’s allowed me to have a full from it once. The drop wasn’t as bad as from the wand, but still worse than from a handjob.
I do not enjoy caged orgasms really, I’m very happy my Wife would rather use her hand to give me any relief. We stopped using piv for any of my orgasms except for maybe on our Anniversary or some random one she may grant me, so I really look forward to feeling her hand on my very erect penis

 

I agree with the consensus - a caged orgasm is just uncomfortable and not that fun. I don't get ruins all that often, if my cage comes off it's almost always because my wife wants intercourse. But comparing the few I've had to the caged orgasms I've had ... I'd prefer a ruin.

 

I would lay it out like this:

1.) Caged Orgasm - 50-75% of normal but with a big miserable drop, unsatisfied
2.) Caged Ruin or Accidental Release - not very pleasurable minimal drop, very unsatisfied
3.) Uncaged Orgasm - Nice with a little drop, satisfied
4.) Uncaged Ruin - not very pleasurable minimal drop, very unsatisfied

 

Interesting to see responses as I can't cum in a cage and she doesn't do ruins or edging. In end though as with most things I don't think there's an one size fits all answer for anyone.

 

Not that lucky or unlucky or I guess. Have no idea how people do it.

 

She messes with my cage, my nipples and loves spankings. Seems shocking is her new thing since we tried it first time this week. I get teased just not in a habdjob type way. She likes me caged not out of it. We tried wand on my cage does nothing for me.

 

She wouldn't go for it and she is charge. It tends to be more of a hurting me thing which we both enjoy. I've edged myself a few times with permission don't see the appeal. I/we like pain I guess not frustration.

 

I'm frustrated enough being locked all but basically 24 or so hours a month. No need to add to it. And again not her thing. She likes me caged not out of it.