Why are you in chasity?

Awesome story. Thanks for sharing.

 

We were playing with chastity on and off. But nothing serious til last Sunday.
When we came home after a running session in the forrest she went to hit the showers at home. I normally wait a moment and hit then the shower. But I was looking on the internet for Chasity movies and websites when she came down. I was with my hand by my balls and dick and she thought I was wanking.
She saw that and got mad at me asking if she wasn't enough for me. We got a discussion and I asked her to take the belt on. She agreed to that.

When I was locked with the belt on I had to seal the belt en pull the seal really tight. She took the keys and said to me that the first opportunity to unlock was set on April 10th. 30 days without any possibilities to unlock even for a small break end of next week. The we have a running event but the belt stays on.
She hide the keys somewhere and until today I just do not know where the keys are.

I even had to make a chastity event booklet where the unlocking and relocking has been written down.
If I cut the seal without her permission it will add 60 more days.

Now I'm sure she's not vanilla anymore.....

 

I would love to hear an update to your story and how the conversation about your submissive feelings went?

 

Well, we both had been interested in it separately.. we never talked about it because we didn't want to seem weird to the other... one night while having more beers than we should have, she mentioned it.. and the flood gates opened.
So we found we both were interested... this wasn't my gf persay, but an exclusive FWB.
We played with it when we were together for a night or weekend, but nothing serious or longer than a weekend.
There was a weekend I was free and she wasn't, I went out, without intending to find someone, and I hooked up with a girl. One time thing.
We had always said , if this happens we will wait a week from us being physical and get tested for any STDs.
I was honest, we waited.. I got tested and all was good.
After that is when things changed and she said if we were going to continue to be FWB this had to be more often.... so there ya go

 

It doesn’t look slow from what your photos show…

 

I wanted to try it and found the book "Locked in Love". It is about being locked for the sake of your wife. It is not overly kinky. I got my wife to read it. She agreed to "go along" for two months and we would see how it went. At the end of the two months, she shyly said she had enjoyed it and I had a change in my behavior that she liked. I asked her if she wanted to continue and she said if I didn't mind and if it didn't bother me too much. She was very kind about about it, but admitted she enjoyed it.

 

I Absolutely Agree with your thoughts!
It’s true… the exchange of power and total devotion to my Goddess and partner in life is amazing!

 

It's the one part of a BDSM lifestyle that I can live 24/7. Like being in constant bondage and under constant control, with a modicum of frustration, discomfort and suffering thrown in for good measure.

 

Like a few of the others, I had played with chastity since college but only as just that, play never anything serious. Wife had never really had interest in even playing with it until a few years ago sadly our marriage was in a very bad place and to be honest looked like it was nearing it's end for a variety of reasons "mostly my fault" We tried a few things and wife suggested caging, not as kinky play but as a serious attempt to correct behavior and rebuild trust. I have been full time caged since then.

 

Wow. So how long have you been in chastity and has it improved your marriage?

 

be thankful for the goddess that you have. Be faithful and enjoy the journey.

 

The past is the past. I am kept busy with a lot of cunnilingus but also pegging, torture and humiliation which I like. Are you getting whatever tlc you need?

 

it started a long time ago, I was 20 in the Air Force and still a virgin! I was with a couple girls but things did work when I needed them too. I was research for ways to stay focused and not masturbate several times a day. I read an article about chastity and was interested. A week or so later some friend dragged me to the adult book store with them. I was only twenty so thought for sure they wouldn't let me in but it was one near the base and I dont think they cared about the legal age was 21.

There on the counter were boxes of CB6000 male chastity, I knew it was a sign and meant to be. I went back to the store the next day (without fellow airmen) and grabbed a box and set it on the counter. I still remember how much my hands were shaking.

The old guy behind the counter asked "Are you sure thats the right size?" I froze I had no idea. He must have seem my confusion and he looked me up an down and switch the box with a CB6000s and said "I am sure this is a better fit for you."

I practically ran back to the base and took a hour but finally got it on and all the spacers right and I knew from that first moment locked Chastity was right for me.

 

I started locking when my clitty stopped being able to get hard. I though it was the correct thing to do and my worthless clitty was an insult to 'Real' men. Being bi-sexual, the guys I play with, I presume, like that I'm locked as they can control me as a submissive Slut, even though I am more than grateful to service their needs.

I've been locked for over three years and I have started to think whether I should be locked or not. As my clitty is incapable of been hard does it really matter, I'm still the same submissive Slut and I'm caged because I think the dommes will be happy to have a caged sissy to play with. I like my clitty caged but it something niggling in the back of my brain.

A bit of a dilemma, may be.

 

Closest I get to crossdressing is boyshorts. They are great for holding things tight. But step-dad was very mean and wife did not approve of full on wearing of dresses. So I am mild in what I do wear.