Just curious how others feel if being teased while on longer lockups helps or makes it worse. Generally I'm locked at least 7 days usually abit longer. We're working on average of 14 days at a time. If we didn't do stuff we both enjoy along way I'm not sure I could do it. For me being locked and ignored be worst punishment I can think of.
Mistress/Wife always I have done a good job satisfying her. It can range from just playing with cage and balls to a full wand edging. Drives me crazy but I must say I would miss it if Mistress/Wife didnt tease.
I think it is pretty universal that locked and ignored is a recipe for disaster in relationships. It generates resentment, which is relationship cancer. Everything I've read on the subject, from recommendations and guides to first hand testimony, all recommends against ignoring as an absolutely critical point. I know, personally, I would hate it. In fact, I just wouldn't accept it. Sexual connection in a romantic relationship is a requirement for me... if there is no connection, there is no point in continuing the relationship (a romantic relationship). I can go without orgasm, I can dedicate myself to my partner, I can worship her endlessly. But I can't go without a sexual (at least psycho-sexual) connection for long.
Was leaving for work she put her hands between my legs and cupped me then said oh sorry you're off to work.. Does that count as a tease
Teased everyday when locked. Going on 90 days locked and She enjoys teasing me each day with masturbating while I watch, fondling balls each morning and before bed, unlocking me for ruined orgasms and edging. I love it all....
Teased regularly here, she likes to rub my balls after we settle into bed, and she’ll give me some serious edging with massage oil about once a week or so. The strange thing is, I crave the rubs more than the orgasm at this point. It does me hornier of course, but right after the edging, I feel exhausted from trying to hold off cumming, then I lay on her chest after re-locking and just feel amazing
Yup, that counts. It just needs to be some communication, ideally physical but can even just be verbal, recognizing the sexual connection. By recognizing, it validates the act and state of chastity.. gives it motivation, value, and meaning. It comes down to ensuring that the chaste may be locked up, but doesn't feel alone.
My previous owner kept me locked 24/7, but loved to take the cage off to edge me. Kept me highly aroused all of the time. Bliss
we're yet to cross this bridge; my wife strongly associates sex with both of us orgasming, despite my assurances I’d love to experiment with being left horny for her, and remains reluctant to try Tease & Denial. I’ve shared I fantasise about being tied, uncaged, edged & re-locked, but she doesn’t go beyond a cage fondle, butt squeeze or cheeky whispered one-liner so far. Ho hum, she’s the boss! we’ve recently been playing more slave-type games & she’ll say “if you do a good job then I’ll consider letting you come too”, but neither of us really believes she’ll then be firm & stop short. I’ll let you know here one day when she surprises us both - #BCWYWF
I fully accept (and enjoy) that she already does, she’s just yet to fully realise the power she has available to her. God help me then …