Did you make a New Year Resolution about Chastity?

This has not been discussed...yet.

Since tonight is usually our date night, I may find out what her new years resolution is in regards to our chastity experience. I just want her to put herself first, however she is inherently a generous person.

I will be happy if she has given it a thought, and that if she has then whatever it is it is for her, but if she has made a resolution she cant help herself , she will be thinking of me as well and what she thinks will make me happy

 

My New Year’s resolution is to introduce my wife to chastity and to continue turning more of my focus to her needs. I’m already noticing changes and she doesn’t even have the key yet.

 

She's made one to be more assertive and I've made one to listen better and try to stay ahead of her needs. We've both agreed longer lockups in general are a goal. I did jokingly ask if I I'd spend most of 2024 in a cage she said yes so there's that.

 

I want to train his stamina, so I can feel him inside me and we both know that he will not orgasm this day.

 

Friday morning Goddess said She wanted U/s to make 2 resolutions. First, that i would be locked up more often, even when W/we are not in O/our Domme/slave roles. Second, that W/we both physically wear my key. i was hesitant at first but W/we sat down and discussed it and ultimately agreed that i would be locked 24/7 until Valentine’s Day. Release would still be possible at Her discretion but each time i asked about it would get me a night in my Kali’s teeth and 1 week in the punishment cage.

After agreeing Goddess unlocked me for the rest of the weekend. Late last night W/we had some amazing sex, including many instances of PIV. at 11:45 last night She put me in Her Pussy for what would be the last time for a long time. She stopped just before i came, locked me up, and put the key on a necklace She bought just for the job. Apparently i will be receiving a locking anklet later this week which will hold my key!

 

i was wrong - it’s 2 anklets!!!

https://captivecollars.com/products...f-submissive-bracelets?variant=44609926267094

 

I don't do New Year's resolutions, but I did start a new lockup session and a journal for it here:
A new year, a new lockup!

 

Finally after several attempts, getting a custom cage that I can wear 24/7.

Getting a PA and cage to use it.

 

Since 2020i have been in and out of chastity and it was more out then in. But as of 12:01am
01-01-2024 due to my wife's love of chastity and humiliating me per her I have been locked for the next 365 days with only been aloud to be unlocked once every quarter for 1 hours. Plus any doctors appointments where I will have to drop my pants.

 

I didn't, but she sure did, lol.

 

This is mine as well.

I also do notice a change and thats just from short daily lockups and hiding it from the wife.

 

This year, I resolve to tell my wife I want her to lock me up and control my orgasms. I also resolve to convince her to demand sexual attention and that I actually enjoy the denial of my own gratification.

 

Resolution fulfilled! My wife and I had a nice long talk yesterday which ended with my putting on the cage. She doesn’t wish to physically hold the key but she knows what the cage means to me and why I put it on. She knows I’m willingly giving up masturbation for her. She’s asexual and has always forced herself to have sex for my sake because she loves me. She said to her all sex is silly so chastity isn’t any more silly than regular sex. This situation works quite well for her. For now it looks like it’ll be 24/7 chastity with an average release of once per month.

 

I am looking to spend at least the majority of 2024 locked.

 

Bravo! Enjoy yourselves!

 

I've had trouble wearing the cage for any length of time due to my stretched and sensitive PA. Mistress put the cage on me on NYE, and we think that after stretching up to 0g, it's now toughened up enough for long term usage. I'm waiting for a BAWR BA-25 titanium with the PA lock. The goal is now open-ended 24/7 chastity at her pleasure. It's been 3 days, and I haven't had any irritation issues with my PA, and the cage is staying on.

It's very comforting to me. I've been without it for too long. I love being under her firm control.

 

2024/7 for us (well me)

 

To stay locked when I don't want to and stop taking extended "breaks".

 

Just to remain locked and as devoted to my Madam as I was the years before.

 

I'm getting my first cage soon, so my resolution is just to start using it and work my way up to long term use!

 

That's how I started... I still consider myself a novice since I've only been doing it for a few months, but I started with individual days and gradually worked my way up into the 2 to 3 week range. I'm hoping to go for a full month soon, possibly on my next lockup.

 

Yeah! Its really exciting. I hope to get up to months at a time haha

 

I resolved to be locked up 24/7 for the year and not be allowed to cum outside my cage.

 

I resolved to only cum when having sex with my wife. No sneaky hand jobs without her. She is not into chastity so I only self-lock but having made this resolution hopefully my level of horniness will increase. I still live in hope that she will embrace chastity and make my dreams come true.