I am very comfortable being locked after 14 years. How about you?

This is my Lady's first experience at being a KeyHolder.. and we recently achieved the 61/2 year of denial.. We got ourselves a customised BadAss cage and feel this is the best we've ever had in terms of comfort for me,access denial and aesthetics.

Once the need for hair cuts has passed the lock wont be fused permanently but the cage will only come off for emergency or medical reasons.

I really do feel naked without the cage and it only rarely comes off now and then only for very short times. I would not be without it. Which is also my Lady's aim too.

 

We started the MC lifestyle Oct. 2018... I was not 24/7 at first, but the last two years, I only get unlocked a few times a year. I found a very comfortable cage that I can wear full time. My Wife (KH) will have me change it when she wants to see something different.
When my Wife allows me to take off my cage, I feel strange not wearing it. Right now, it's part of me. My Wife will take off my cage and let me get hard once a month...

 

Hi, I searched for the topic and found your response. I have a lot of trouble due to what I gather is a really large scrotum and set of balls. At least people tell me that. The sac gets folded this way and that, and the pinching and chafing are pretty bad unless I use a lube. What I've settled on is A&D ointment, which is greasy as heck and makes a mess, but lasts a long time - at least a few hours. Sounds like a silicone lube works for you. Would it be something like Uberlube? I need to narrow your advice down so that I can be confident I'm buying and trying the right kind of thing. Thanks, and peace!

Oh, and one last q: about how long between re-applications?

 

23 years here, but serious for only the last 15

 

Damn, dude! Assuming you wore a cage 23 years ago, what were they like then?

 

I've been locked now for 1 year and 4 months with releases of course.
I feel like something is wrong when I'm unlocked now,

 

Well that’s only the year 2000 so they’d have been much the same I reckon. They wouldn’t have been made of pewter or anything.

 

I had the plastic cb-2000 back then as my first device. Been locked in one device or another more than not since then. Definitely a lot more choices for devices these days!

 

@HouseboyForHer see? Not carved from a mammoth tooth or anything like that

 

Har!! I love it!

I just wish I, also, had known about these things and FLRs back then. It would have saved a LOT of grief in our marriage. Good on ya, mate!!

Peace.

 

You're killing me over here. I love it!

 

I aim to please

 

In a few months it will be ten years for me.

 

It sucks, being away from my Wife because She insists on leaving me with the key - which is the right thing to do, of course. I don't like the temptation. We have a bunch of numbered plastic padlocks and one of those little acrylic cubes to put the key in and lock, but my Wife is just not someone who can be bothered to keep track of the number, so that doesn't work. So I bought a "kitchen safe", which is clear box, white top, built in timer that controls a locking mechanism.

It is such a relief when, with the timer set to 10 or 14 days or whatever the max is, to hear the little whir of the motor and see the deadbolts thrown. It's also erotic as hell. No begging, no pleading, nothing other than smashing the box will work.

Peace!

 

Just to give my little account: I've been locked about 99.x percent of the time since about October 2020, so 3.5 years. As I sit here, near my Wife, I'm locked and I can't tell it's on, but often I do. I very much like my BA-20 in stainless steel. I also like being reminded that I am locked, so I like to notice the cage is there, doing its thing. I like it's heft.

Even though there's not a lot of sexual activity in our marriage currently, and our FLR is pretty gentle, we're never going back. I've been orgasm-free for nearly 2.5 years now. (I'm prepared to be orgasm-free for the rest of my life, if that's how it works out.) Old age and infirmity will be the only thing that ends our chastity journey and my sentence in my steel prison.

Peace!

 

Mistress property has been caged for over 5 yrs. I don't see being released anytime soon. Mistress property is currently in a HT V5 stainless steel cage and has been for the last year and a half. I'm in this situation because I lost a bet. Mistress won a bet and said that she was going to lock up her property. It was no longer my property. Well it's been 5 yrs and Mistress property is still in it cage. I have no complaints . Wouldn't do me any good

 

It’s been 8 years now since we started this. First 6 months was fairly how I had envisioned it. Multiple unlocks for play during the week, teasing, and an orgasm once a week or so.

My time in the cage grew. Orgasms, teasing, and erection time diminished greatly.

Im not sure when exactly it happened, but at some point wearing a cage didn’t feel like wearing a cage. It was part of me without thinking about it. My routine of grooming, washing, and after shower lubrication became second nature. Peeing sitting is second nature as well, in fact I have noticed I accidentally sit now even if I am not locked. I noticed this after I was unlocked for sex and had went to pee after. I sat and finished before I realized I didn’t have to.

As far as physical comfort, I don’t notice it’s on really. It’s normal, so whatever physical restrictions that arise…pinching, tightness, ache from attempted erections…I don’t really think of them as anything other than life as usual.

What does feel odd is the “normal” stuff. Getting hard feels funny now. Having it touched feels funny. Sometimes it feels so hard it hurts. Orgasms are so intense that I get cramps in calves and toes, and I actually cry out a little (I’ve never been loud or vocal in that department).

So I would say I’m very comfortable in my cage at this point, and being out of it is more of a weird feeling than being in it.

 

I started being locked in the 1990's and still being locked

 

It will be 2 years for us this August. My longest caging was 101 days. Currently I’m on day 41 with only two orgasms.
I Love my Goddess and I devote all my sexual energy to her! My HTv4 with a 40mm Nub Sleeve and a 45mm Ring ensure that her property is secured at all times until she decides otherwise!

 

Been 7 years and I'm in the same boat as a lot of the above posters. I feel more comfortable in the cage than out of it. I still get concerned when around my little nephews and its still on my mind a lot of the time, to be honest. But while I'm being honest, if given the choice to wear it routinely or not ... I'd choose to wear it.

Interestingly enough my wife and I had a conversation about a month ago where I asked her if I'd always be locked in a cage. She said yes, and reiterated to me how much more she likes me when I'm caged and horny. And then pointed out that if I ever really wanted out and wanted to stop, we would (consent and all that), but she much rather I stay locked up and horny for her.

I'm in my early 40s, we've been doing this 7 years. It's a bit of a daunting thought to think I'm never going to be in control of my orgasms ever again. A hot thought, but a bit daunting.

 

You quoted me, was there something in my post you were responding to? I didn’t see it if you did.

 

I was very turned on when I discovered chastity cages in 2020 and so was my gf when I asked if we should try one. I said she is now in control of my erections and orgasms, owns my genitals with no conditions. I should never be allowed to bargain or quit. Almost as soon as I was locked she said she was more turned on by oral and me being in chastity, didn't really like piv with me and would never give me oral sex ever again. Quitting or disobedience would not be a return to normal sex although I am of course allowed to return to mastubating behind her back but she would remove herself from any sexual activity. I am physically used to my cages now and can wear them almost indefinitely. I have chosen to be grateful for her chastity enforcement rather than be friendzoned and don't want to hurt her feelings by quitting or jeopardise our relationship. She wants to be the strictest mistress there is, wants to give me more extreme treatment than anyone else on this forum. I do embrace my role in the relationship but have very little option to back out.

 

I envy that you found this in your 40s! I didn't discover this until I was in my 50s. I'm now in my 60s and just worked up the courage to ask my girlfriend to enter into a female led relationship and then hopefully one that includes chastity!!

 

I'm in an FLR, and currently my Mistress/wife wants me locked and porn free for 11 weeks. At that point she intends to extend both. Having complete control of my phone and electronic device via an app, she can prevent me from seeing porn while limiting my use of social media etc. Being locked and completely controlled has been a huge boost for our already fun marriage of 32 years. She much prefers me locked and porn free, and has said there is no benefit to her in allowing me either orgasms or porn. I think she has found her true calling in life. Lol

 

Like many guys who have commented in this thread, I feel more comfortable caged than when I am released for a day or two. I feel uncomfortable and anxious when I am not wearing a cage. I can’t wait until I get locked up again.