Frenum Piercing: Experience and Advice

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    Where did you go for this piercing
     
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    A few years ago I brought up the idea of a frenum piercing to my wife, and she was definitely not hearing any of it. It came up again recently when we were talking about chastity one night. This time she's not completely rejecting the idea. However, her biggest apprehension remains the same as last time. She's worried that the holes from the piercing will be very noticeable when the device comes off. She doesn't like the look of jewelry in that region either.

    So, when you take the device off, how noticeable are the holes in the skin from the piercing?
     
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    You'd need to look really hard to see them.
     
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    My husband got a frenum piercing as well. I can't imagine how to notice that except inspecting our penis in detail.
     
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    That is very true whether you have, or use, a piercing or not.

    Too long a cage allows lengthways erectile swelling, A short close fitting cage doesn't.

    Width of cage is completely different, The shorter the cage, the better the fit, but also the more width you need for the same volume of penile tissue. Having extra width doesn't seem to have much if any effect on becoming erect, a wide tube causes far less squeezing and pinching, and is generally much more comfortable.

    The point about cage dimensions with a piercing is that if the size helps you avoid having erections, and there's not too much room for the penis to move about or the cage to move and put pressure on or pinch the piercing, then again, that's more comfortable.
    So it makes perfect sense that the sort of cage that is more comfortable without a piercing will also be more comfortable with one for many of the same reasons. One way of looking at it is that all a piercing is, is just one more bar in your cage. It just happens to be one you can't escape from. If you have a generous foreskin, then the problems for comfort with that aren't very different to the problems of dealing with a piercing. I have a frenum piercing, but it's rarely used to secure me, I enjoy it so much I don't really want to be released.

    How noticible is it?
    I had mine for years before it was noticed by anyone else.
     
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    Good to know!
     
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    Is he circumcised? I am, but I don’t know if that would make a difference or not in terms of the noticeability of the holes.
     
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    No, he is not.
     
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    What are or were your problems with the Frenum piercing
     
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    I did the bridle piercing myself at home. it healed quickly, in about 2-3 weeks. the expansion of the hole occurred within a month from a small caliber to a large one. I don't use a frenulum piercing for the cage. because this is the most pain-sensitive place on the penis.
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    The frenum piercing is significantly more delicate than the PA. It became sore easily with even slight mechanical strain (twisting or pulling) even when fully healed two years.
     
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    Absolutely right! piercing the frenulum of the penis is only as a decoration!
     
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    He wears the foreskin retracted. Usually it remains behind the corona. Sometimes, when he is extra flacid, mostly after running, the upper part slips in front a bit but since it can't slip over the cages frenum hook, it remains in that position and never covers the front of the glans.
     
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    #39 eduard, Jan 3, 2024
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    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...astity-in-forced-womanhood.53211/#post-652759
    hola yo utilizo jaula con piercing de frenillo cuando mi mujer quiere que tenga ereccion el diseño esta echo para que en ereccion comprima la punta de mi pene,y evita una ereccion total de esa manera se divierte tocandome tambien va bien con segun que pantalon pues se nota menos bulto, para mi es mas molesto si el pene esta flacido pues es cuando a veces molesta en algun movimiento
     
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    Please post in English.
     
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    sorry miss l-u-c-y
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...astity-in-forced-womanhood.53211/#post-652759
    Hello, I use a cage with a frenulum piercing when my wife wants me to have an erection. The design is made so that during an erection it compresses the tip of my penis, and prevents a total erection. That way she has fun touching me. It also goes well with depending on what pants, well. notice less bulge, for me it is more annoying if the penis is flaccid because that is when it sometimes bothers some movement
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    The devices not involving a base ring are one of the things that really interests me about piercings. I’ve got such a “tight” sack in terms of how it hangs. I’d think constant wear would be much more possible for me with the ones not involving the base ring.
     
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    I had both types of piercings that the OP mentioned. I started with the frenum for the same reasons. I had painful pinching issues with it and that’s why I abandoned it. The holes disappeared from sight completely as expected. I also had issues with the rings for the ball trap devices. So, later we decided to get the PA for a shaft only device and stretched to 2G with no issues whatsoever.
     
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    I am curious if anyone who posted on this thread is still monitoring this thread and am seeking more information on chastity secured with piercings. What are your piercings and have you kept them?

    I also want to thank all of you for your posts! Although I did not read this post before getting pierced, I read many on chastitymansion, and they were very influential in my decision to obtain 3 Frenum piercings. I have been wearing a Bijou from Evotion for about 3 months, after three months of bare healing time. Very comfortable, I do not know it is even there. No pain or discomfort to do with the piercings. I do have a lot of sensitivity to the exposed corona (exposed area between cage and tip) and have ordered a closed tip to see if that will solve my issue.

    My go to device has always been the Jailbird (many years!) but when I get real cold (cold water swimming or outdoor winter activities) I shrink up and it falls right off. The Bijou can be a wear and forget permanent device. I miss my Jailbird and am not sure if I really want to forget I am locked up. I like the feeling of the Jailbird holding me, like my keyholder is holding me.

    What cages have you tried and now that some time has passed, have your opinions changed?
     
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