Threshold between short term and long term wear?

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    What is the cutoff day or ratio of locked vs unlocked time would you consider meaning long term wear?

    For instance, 3 days locked then a 2 week break, I imagine is short term.
     
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    This has been argued, debated and over quantified to death it seems. Simplest answer it would seem is if you're not in a cage majority of the week, month etc it's not long term. Now I'm sure over precise semantics are on their way at some point. That basically sums it up however.
     
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    I should of figured this would be one of those beaten to death topics among the group.

    Its good to know that your basically sums it up stance was similar to what I thought. However, being new and naive to alot of the finer details of this lifestyle, I wanted to make sure.

    I guess a simple search would of helped me too...
     
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    It's a fair question and asking it is normal curiosity, no harm meant. It just tends to draw long drawn out arguments on what's pretty simple summed up lol.
     
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    This also brings up the long vs short term in terms of orgasm denial vs. just being caged. I know there are several folks here that are in their cage the majority of the time, but are released frequently for orgasms - frequently is relative again, for some that’s once a week some it’s monthly.

    Mine and my wife’s dynamic is I’m locked 24/7 unless she wants it out to play, which is probably weekly for an hour or so when she wants the real thing PIV. For the denial aspect, I’m over 200 days without orgasm now, so definitely qualify for long term there.

    If you haven’t seen the “locked/denial matrix” that has been circulated around here, (think maybe @Tom Allen originated) take a look at that - that’s a great tool to use to bring both into perspective and in that matrix I’m an 8.5/9
     
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    My tune has changed over the past year. I’d say the inflection point would be when you consider the chaste state your “normal” condition vs the exceptional one.

    I am normally locked. It’s an exceptional case when I am not.

    To me, that’s long term. Short term was back when my wife would ask, “Are you locked up?”
     
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    I agree. My typical locked time is 60-120 days with an un-caged period of less than a week.
     
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    You could measure it by how you and your keyholder feel about it:

    Short term:
    Being locked is a novelty, being unlocked is your normal.

    Long term:
    Being unlocked is a novelty, being locked is your normal.
     
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    Totally agree. This makes the definition much easier, flexible and helpful.

    yesterday I was unlocked for about four hours. It was unusual. No sex. Just happened to be unlocked.
     
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    spot on!
     
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    It changes as you descend into the rabbit hole.
     
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    Agree. Someone else here coined the term, "Default locked", which is how I describe my situation. The cage is locked unless there is a good reason for it not to be. I take it off on Saturday mornings for bike rides, whenever she (increasingly rarely :( ) wants PIV, or for travel.

    Bottom line is, taking it off is an active choice which can be made, but in the absence of a specific reason I am, by default, locked.
     
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    No this is all too subjective:

    (A1*A2)/(M*L) = No. months locked before defined as long term.

    Where:

    A1 = Your age
    A2 = Keyholders age
    M = Number of days per week masturbation prior to chastity.
    L = length of penis. (Size matters)

    Simple and scientific…
     
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    L - length flaccid or hard?

    For that matter - airspeed of an unladen swallow: European swallow or African swallow? :D
     
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    I've been using an urethral chastity cage for several years.
    They were changed because smaller ones were needed but i was kept locked almost always since i started.
    The cage came off just for the time to clean it and then back in place!

    Having it small and mostly soft made things easier and the urethral tube took care of the rare spontaneous ejaculations
     
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    Well said.
     
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    I get 153 months... release sometime in 2035 then! o_O
     
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    So by that math I’ll be doomed for about 17 years!
     
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    Agree with this!
     
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    You misunderstood, that’s simply the time span in which you can classify your cage wearing as ‘long term’. There’s another equation for time between orgasms but I won’t bore you with it now.

    Besides, if you don’t like the result, you can just use you length in millimetres rather than inches. That’s how science works.
     
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    So if you do the math then you’d be considered “long term” once you’ve been wearing a cage for that long?

    Interesting concept for sure…
     
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    It’s like a pension, it pays to start saving early. The longer you leave it, and the older you get, the harder it becomes to make this substantial.
     
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    I'm not very good at math etc, but i can say for sure that in the last years, i was unlocked once a month JUST FOR THE TIME to clean the cage + tube
    and then locked again.
    I sometimes find a bit of sperm in the panties but the penis doesn't grow or get hard.
     
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    Great analogy!!
     
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    For me, it's the point where I go from wanting to be unlocked and orgasm, to wanting not to orgasm as it resets the hormone levels.

    We've gone in and out of chastity over the last few years, sometimes it will last 2 months or more and lock up periods will be measured in weeks, other times it's only been a few weeks snd lock up periods are measured in days.

    The short stints never reach the level of hormonal bliss.
     
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