Telling female friend

She expressed an interest in being a domme. Ask her if she has thought about that in any detail. If she says something about bondage or punishments that would be a natural place to ask about your chastity. Do you ever share pictures? A picture of a cage would be a good conversation starter. Like: "wonder how that works" or "I wonder how that would feel on me".
And, no reason why "friends" can't also play games.
Good luck

 

Would you give a key to a "friend" (not your partner) to be locked for 6 1/2 years without release and presumably without teasing or servicing her? Basically being an eunuch?

Although upon reading it again, he mentioned she became a "little later my Lady" so I may have completely misunderstood this.

 

Love to hear how it goes. I mean if y’all have already broached the subjects of kink and D/s etc I doubt she’ll react in a bad way.

Something simple as “man I wonder what that’s like to have your cock locked up and someone else having control” can open the door nicely.

 

Something like that will probably change your relationship. So the question is, what do you want the relationship to be. If you invite her to be a KH, you bet things will change. Do you want that? Do you want something more sexual. So, given that you are worried about the dynamics changing, forget about asking her to be a KH. It's a no-brainer.

 

Yes that is exactly what I have done and indeed my friend does refer to me as her eunuch.

 

That’s chastity. Hence the name of this site.

 

Believe me, being locked and denied by a friend is intense because she has no reason EVER to allow you relief! I’ve been assured my days of being allowed to ejaculate are over for good….

 

Ok. There are many opinions what you should do. However I think you overthinking it. You said you two talk openly about sex. Why did you tell her about other fetishes but not this one. Just tell her you are interested in this. Tell her your opinion on chastity and why you like it. If she shows interest you could ask her. But I don’t drop this question like bomb out of nowhere. My first reaction on chastity was: “I couldn’t do this to him.” I was so wrong Just be honest and tell her you are looking for KH. If she’d like to be yours KH. I think this is the best way. You will get your answer at least.

 

Women are deep oceans of secrets.

 

Why would you not believe him. I will be 2 years March. If he does well on keeping things clean then there is no reason to be out. As my wife and I figured out.

 

I think it’s because some people can’t grasp that chastity can be anything other than just a way to delay and intensify sexual gratification…. still very orgasm-focussed. And that’s fine, but it can also be about full submission and renunciation.