Where are the younger generation FLR couples?

Me and my gf are both in our 30s. I would say that she is naturally controlling and dominant but at the same time I don't think she would have any interest in an FLR if I hadn't brought it up. I think that she does it in order to make me happy and because she sees the obvious benefits both for her and for our relationship since we fight way less than before. Our dynamic mostly consists of obeying her/not arguing with her on anything and executing tasks like fetching things, which would make her in the mood to have some spicy time or tease me. I am not caged but she completely controls my orgasms, teasing and denying me quite often. Today it is 1 month since we officially started our FLR and I haven't received a "normal" orgasm, only a ruined one from her feet and I've had a couple of wet dreams. To be honest some of the previous answers made me wonder if I'm missing out on something by wanting to introduce that type of dynamic and accept my nature quite early in life but then again, I've always enjoyed the teasing element of sex more than the penetration or orgasm itself and my gf doesn't have the highest sex drive, she really doesn't need sex that often and in any case in our relationship she would always get what she wanted in that area, I was always available and put her sexual needs first. She just felt the need to reciprocate, something that is becoming less and less common for her nowadaysLast week she wanted to have some fun but I was cooking and she just went to the bedroom and used her vibrator. I was so shocked when I found out, felt kinda hurt and disappointed but also incredibly turned on. So, a future with more and more orgasms for her and less and less normal orgasms for me sounds a bit scary but definitely exciting.

 

Us being in Deep South Bible Belt in small town rural.The lady’s here are independent and strong will and won’t back down.I see a lot of families are in a unofficial flr in churches.It don’t have to be all porn/femdom type relationship but Itcan be vanilla.Most guys here treat women with respect and make them feel special with love won’t to make them happy.

 

I think that it takes a long time for many women to realise the benefits of a flr, it did in my case. We played at femdom games for many years before finally making it part of our lifestyle. I also think the fact that the kids had moved out helped.

 

Same here. We are 66. We were always in a female led relationship but never recognized it and had many power struggles in 44 years.
Three years ago we had a come to Jesus meeting about us.
I came out to my wife and told her I needed to totally submit to her.
Our relationship has changed so dramatically since we formalized our wife led marriage three years ago. I'd never go back to the way we were. Everything is better. Everything.

 

At 37 I feel old. I think I may be in the younger generation in regards to this lifestyle, it’s hard to tell. My wife is 31… I think. That’s bad. Maybe she’s 32 . I’ll say early 30s.

I document everything! From how we started, to our pinnacle… even our ups and downs in this new situation I put us into.

We’re definitely out there, just have to look.

 

Where are the younger generation FLR couples

Maybe they are getting on with it and the guys are not spending time on the net generally and certainly not looking at sites like this one without approval from their partners

 

Single male here who is 25! (Single for anyone wondering).

for younger women as previously stated I think generally go for more dominant and older guys when they’re younger which I see allot of the time or people around the same age who have always known each other. Also I think when people are young you can go out and have fun and explore without going around on the internet.

That being said we are out there both male and female but as a man I find it hard as I go so against the grain of a typical man which isn’t ideal but I know I will find a happy relationship and partner one day.

 

We are mid 30s professional type people. We both earn similarly. We started playing with chastity and femdom in college. She is an older sibling and dominant by nature. No one is the stay at home type. We sort of fall into the flr category. It’s something that happens natural but recently we have been pushing it. Looking at adding tasks to me in the Monday app, she might deny orgasms for me for 10 or so days at a time. She also loves just randomly hitting my balls etc. sometimes it gets on my nerves but she takes great pleasure in just slapping the daylights out of my dick… so I enjoy that she likes it. I really like chastity and she participates mostly for that reason. Things she likes that trend toward flr are giving house jobs, having me sit and brush and braid her hair in front of friends and family or alone. Having me dry her hair or serve her tea while nude. I suppose these fall in the flr category.