New to site; just starting a journey with wife

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    I am new to the site. I confessed to my wife in 2017 that I enjoyed cross-dressing. Initially, it was just panties and then slowly grew to more clothing. It's been a two-step forward and one-step-back type of relationship with dressing and FLR.
    I wear panties all the time now and have a drawer full of them. I have a few dresses, bras and nightgowns and 5 or 6 pairs of shoes.

    Slowly we are playing with FLR and denial. For every five orgasms, I get to have one. This time around she is on her second. She said she is enjoying this arrangement. There is no pressure on her to have sex with me, she has an orgasm when she wants and sometimes, she will just have me lick her for 20-30 minutes without having an orgasm. She said that it still feels good, and it relaxes her. She said I should not worry she would control when she as an orgasm and when I did as well.

    Chasity cage may come at a certain point, but we are not using it currently.

    I do the laundry, clean the house, and share in the cooking. She works full-time as a teacher, and I own a consulting firm, so I control my hours. My wife is 21 years younger but has an old soul. I just need to remember to take it slow and this is just another stage in our relationship.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Be nice to see some pics of you soon. Wifey sounds amazing. You are a very lucky gurl. Welcum.
     
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    Welcome, sounds like you have a great relationship
     
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    Welcome and enjoy
     
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    Welcome. In my experience the more you explore together the stronger the bond, knowing specifics in each other’s kink will make the bond unbreakable.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion and good luck.
     
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    Good luck and welcome
     
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    Enjoy the trip!
     
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    Welcome. We are new here too but my wife has hit the ground running. Yell if you just want someone to chat with good luck
     
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    Welcome enjoy
     
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    Sounds like you both are doing very well. Congratulations and welcome to the Mansion.
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community.
     
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