Anxiety and fist time trying a cage

I was nervous first time lock clicked so in my case yes. I mean you're locking your dick in a cage I'd think some nerves are to be expected from anyone.

 

Good luck with it. Persevere

 

The first time I was locked, my Queen did the locking. While it was a little scary, it was also one hell of a rush. It was like stepping off a ledge into the unknown.

 

First time I locked myself up, I asked myself "Am I really doing this?" and I replied "Yes I am!" Had a similar concern myself about maybe the lock would not work after a while or the cage might break, but those concerns vanquished when I realized how comfortable the cage was after I closed the lock.

I kept it on because it felt so good and even forgot it was on until later that same day when I tuned in to some porn and went to jerk off... I ended up grabbing my cage instead and I said "Oh, that's right... Oops!" Had a serious urge to get my key and unlock myself but wanted to test the cage's resilience (and mine too), so I kept it on through the whole DVD. Didn't take long for me to realize everything is fine and there's no need to worry... Save for perhaps someone finding my key and wondering what it's for. LOL.

Everyone is nervous their first time, so it's perfectly normal. Just keep at it and you'll be fine. I'm on my second month and I'm gradually attempting longer lockup sessions instead of going "Gung Ho" and trying for months up front. Slow and steady is better than "Rush & Risk".

 

I am new to this and my wife/kh has taken to it better than I thought, its been mixed emotions but after the first fortnight being locked up I got used to it and now on my second lockup I know it’s what I want and my wife/kh is loving it so hopefully my lockup will last as long as my wife/kh demands it. It’s strange at first especially going out to to work and the shops but after a few days it’s just normal good luck and enjoy yourself

 

Don't ask me how many times I've tried the padlock to close and open before attaching it to the cage, just to be sure the lock wouldn't open when needed...
It was a struggle for me to fit through the 50 mm ring the first time. So much that it took me more than half an hour just to get the ring in place. After that, I was so exited that the cage wouldn't fit for another hour or so.

 

Sometimes I get so excited to put on my cage that I get a full erection and I gotta use a few drops of lube to fix the problem. Even with a full erection, lube allows me to very easily squeeze the cage on and force my erection down without any pain at all. It feels so awesome. So, you might wanna try it if you find yourself so excited that you can't get your cage on and same for the ring too.

 

Just roll with it. You will get used to it and it will all be ok.

 

I struggled to get the ring on so many times.

First cage was 45mm. I couldn't get in at all. Actually, I tried it again last week. I've got a much better technique now, but it felt like I was really going to have to force to the point of considerable pain in my testicle. I could have endured the pain but came to the conclusion that once it was on, if things started to swell, it might be impossible to get back off.

My next cage was a 50 mm. I struggled for days to get into the ring. My balls seemed always be high and tight and I couldn't get more than one of them in everytime I tried. I took to sleeping with the ring next to my body to keep cool, and waited for my balls to completely relax. Eventually I managed it. I was so excited to fit the cage. I wore it for a couple of hours on 2 occasions before coming to the conclusion that it was too tight. It burned badly and my balls went blue.

Then I got the 55mm base ring. Did the same dance of waiting for everything to relax and was really happy when I got the ring on, fitted the cage and found it wasn't uncomfortable.

Since then I've learned that even when I'm high and tight, I can just forcefully stretch out my scrotum, get a fist under both balls and easily pull them through one at a time. I got into the original 50mm again recently with my practised technique very easily. It was still too tight to wear indefinitely.

I've thought about recording a video for first timers. I'd have found it very useful in the beginning.

 

I just wanna add something for novices looking to order cages online... If the online store you order from offers expedited shipping for just just a few dollars more, take it!

I ordered 4 total cages (1 as a replacement) and 2 of them I ordered with the free shipping and they took FOREVER to arrive! My last order was 2 weeks ago and I'm still waiting on it! The other 2 I ordered with expedited shipping were sent out the very next day and they arrived later the same week.

 

I remember I was. My first used a padlock and I inserted a small zip tie instead. To be honest I've never had a problem with a lock. Check them regularly and you'll be fine.

I also remember the first time I went out wearing one..

I'm out in it all the time now apart from medical appointments.