Brand new here, I finally was able to convince my wife/ KH to let me introduce chastity into our relationship. I may have over stepped my bounds and told her I wanted to do it for a month and after almost 4 days she seems to be committed to keeping me caged for at least the end of the month. Not sure how well it’s gonna go but I’m willing to do it if she’s committed to making me. What are some books you’d recommend she read to help her take the guesswork out of being a KH?
First time month... you jump in to the sea immediately .... those who are entering slowly are chickens chip chip chip.... But in a way it seems like your wife want to make sure you regret it That would be really cool if she doesnt soften.
She asked “what do I need to do, sign a contract for ya??” So I made one and she signed it. 10/31/23 it is!
A lot of people start here https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/ Certainly worked for my wife (now KH)
Well update: Rolling into day 6, the Mrs. is still enforcing it. I will say last night into today has led to a very full sack and blue ball situation. Some people will laugh but we’re pretty sexually active (maybe 3 to 4 times a week) so 8 days no orgasm, and 6 days caged is starting to build up. However she’s made every evening before bed absolutely terrible…. And enjoyable♂️. Also wouldn’t let me take my cage off alone in the shower last night so she did it. As I’m not aloud to touch anything down there. She’s taking it pretty serious and I LOVE IT.
Sounds powerful! KH books have not really helped my KH as much as I wished...she had to invent what works for us, and well, after some trial and error, she really did. After 3 weeks, things changed for me real quick. After 8, much different, stable, better in every way. Blue balls are always gone now, no more issue. Watch out for depression, and weird ego thoughts, like that it is bad for you. My little mind used to generate reasons endlessly, I learned to stare each one down, one at a time, and keep going.
Little update: My wife and I got in a heated session in the shower a few nights ago. I was ready to bust but tried my best not to. In the middle of kissing her neck, she reached for my penis to tease me and…. I orgasmed not even seconds after her touching me. We got out of the shower and she told me what I disgrace I am and how I should be ashamed of myself. Then proceeded to add 5 days to my lockup calendar. The told me each time that happens I go back to the beginning as zero days locked up. 3 weeks worth.