Hello! New husband & wife!

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    Hello everyone!

    My name is Dan(41), and my wife is Sarah(35).We are excited to meet new people with similar interests.

    We have been exploring chastity on and off for the last few years (began around the start of the pandemic), and are eager to continue.

    We have for a longer time slowly explored cuckolding and a FLR. On a whim we ordered a random knockoff Chinese made cage with some other toys. From there we have gone through a number of knockoffs (plastic and metal), as well as several of the legit CB-x variants.
    Now we are considering making the jump into full custom metal.

    Feel free to reach out, always happy to chat!

    - Dan and Sarah
     
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    Welcome
    This is a great site to share information and meet interesting and new people.
    Would love to hear how things evolved for you with cuckolding and FLR. Trying for same thing
     
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    Welcome to the mansion, good luck in your journey.
     
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    Yeah the site has always come up in random Google searches, so we figured we might as well join!

    As for how our lifestyle and such, I will make a second reply with the long version.

    But the tldr; is early in our relationship we had a bit to much to drink, and my wife started to admit some of her more taboo fantasies, and at that moment, I had just enough "courage" to admit some of mine.

    After that, it was a long, slow process, little steps, and lots of communication. Almost 8 years to right now!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome aboard. Good luck
     
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    Welcome to CM.
     
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    Welcome and enjoy the trip !
     
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    hi and nice to see couples here and being new also nice to know some locals are also locked up
     
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    Welcome and good luck.

    Def make sure your sizes and measurements are spot on. Will safe you time and money from having to return the device for adjustments. Def do lots of research. Lots of good info on here, some hard to find. Just a lot of time spent reading. Lots of communication between you and the maker of the custom cages you want, ask questions and they will know exactly how best to come up with a device that meets your needs wants.
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community.
     
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    Hi. If you have a PA piercing I’d recommend going for a Glans Armour 2 from MCN cos it’s so no-nonsense and can be kept clean without needing ever to remove it. Sizing is also easy, price reasonable, after sales service (should you ever need it) very good.
     
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    Welcome to the site. Whether it was too much alcohol or not communication is the key to any relationship. Myself I don’t drink. I tell people I’m allergic to alcohol. I break out in a drunk. Men who can share and be emotionally available are rare. My wife tells me that it’s why women are attracted to me, lol , so at 66 yo I say ok dear, I love you dear. We wanted to do this years ago and it was cost prohibitive at the time so we are new to this also. About a month in and enjoying a whole new dynamic to our already/ still active sex life. Good luck, be safe.
     
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    Hello, and welcome to CM!!!
     
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    hello @SmallCuckHusband and welcome to here and i hope you luke it here as well.
     
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    Nice to hear from a couple practicing male chastity. Welcome to the mansion. I'm sure you'll enjoy it here.
     
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    It sounds like you’ve had enough time and experience to know you both enjoy and want to continue in this lifestyle. A well-fitting steel cage will be worth the investment. Of course Sarah may want to make sure she’s getting her money’s worth with some intense lock-ups. ;)
     
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    Hi welcome I’d love to chat with you guys please feel free to check out my profile and get in touch
     
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    Welcome to the mansion
    sounds like your enjoying chastity and it suits you guys, I love my wife wearing my key on nights out and hopefully one day someone will actually come over and ask about it, if you want to chat I’m here we’re from th uk ( Yorkshire )
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion.
     
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    Hi and welcome to CM
     
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    Welcum to never never land where only wives get to cum .
     
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