Ann keeps surprising me. This is the first trip we have taken together that she purposely left the key behind at home wherever she hides it. She keeps getting more adventurous as we go. I should have known the first night when she snuggled up so quick laying on my chest. By the 2nd night I knew she must have left the key. I still have nervous moments watching her getting really used to this. I know it's good for both of us and I'm all in no matter how nervous I might get at times. It's easy to get in a rut and wish she could read your mind to see what you need as far as attention to make it easier to pass time to the next goal and that is if she even shares what her future intentions are. Men, be very patient. If she is beginning to accept and like this new lifestyle, your patience will be tested because let's face it, us men can be pigs wanting what we want. I have to remind myself very often that this is for her, not me. She has yet to deny me that it wasn't for the best. I trust her with all my heart John