How many here have handed over all the finances and financial decisions to wifey. This is the ultimate servitude,because she will own you completely and your service will be convincing or you will pay the price of being absolutely nothing and without her approval.
I have let my Queen handle finances for years, well before chastity. I have input, but for the most part she handles everything. We have always shared responsibilities, as it just seemed natural.
We just recently did this. We have joint accounts and can see all accounts, but she now has full control and I have to get permission to make purchases that are not Fuel related. This includes eating out etc.
Mistress/Wife and I do it a bit different. I do the bookkeeping around all our finances and she does reviews and approvals. Its my responsibility to her to take care of entire household including paying bills/etc. Anything not right or late is bad for me..
I only posted a question about this topic yesterday. Does it make you feel compelled to obey totally when she can have you penniless in a nanny second.
I turned over everything and even did a binding power of attorney. She could leave me penniless if she wanted.
i've done this before but found i was being taken advantage of! i'd like it if my new GF. MsLL, let me take care of all household expenses without Her having to worry about them. it's one of the least of things i could do for Her, and it acknowledges Her need for independence and financial security. we should work as a team, that's so important, when it comes to finances in general.
I handle a lot of detailed financial things (which is quite stressful for me), but she's in always completely in charge. She weighs in on things that matter to her, and gives me free reign on things that she doesn't want to deal with.
I deal with all the financial organisation, but madam has full control over the financial side of things, we have a joint account but my card is kept in her purse, we have a account in my name that has a small amount of money is put in it every month, so I have money for fuel, ect. Anything else I have ask permission to spend.
I actually fell into a situation like this years ago not even realising I had been cuckolded. It was both exciting and perilous.
Oh I got down to a very light weight she used to bring guys around to our apartment, I had no say in anything. Was mocked for anything I did or said. Finally she left me and I spiraled into an abyss that took a few years to get out. If it had of been a clean break I might have never known the full extent of my real life embarrassing adventure. Everyone must have said the most humiliating things about me behind my back but I never really heard them other than many betrayals were presented right to my face as evidence I was a wimp who would just accept all the things that happened.
If you’re married you are legally entitled to the money and assets regardless of what she says so it would be hard to leave you penniless. If you are not married than you would foolish to enter such an arrangement.
Mistress has got the money and i have not got any. i am allow to do the shopping for food but i dont have money for that cos i use the card thingy and i has to take the paper thing back home for Mistress to see. i dont mind tho cos before i meet Mistress i got into dreaful bother with money so it best i have not got it now.
My wife handles all the finances. When I met my wife, I was a rugby playing happy go lucky guy. On the other hand, my wife was a single mom who had the courage and gumption to leave an abusive marriage and ultimately own her own house. When our first child came along we bought a house together. Shortly thereafter I had the temerity to suggest we run a weekly budget. She let me know in no uncertain terms that the finances were to be run by her. I meekly backed down. At that point she had a proven track record, and I didn't. Ironically, I received my professional accounting designation shortly afterwards. It didn't change anything, and that was 35 years ago.