Why are you in chastity?

Number 3 for me. We started out as tease and denial play, my idea, but it has pleasantly morphed into much more. We both enjoy it, and have found it to be much more than an occasional kink. I enjoy the submissiveness, and she enjoys the control.

 

Not listed but I would pick OTHER. I enjoy being in chastity , being teased and denied when I was with my ex. I absolutely loved to orally please her, she is multi orgasmic like 10 easy

 

Because I want to be good

 

Figured a cock cage looked like a fun new toy to try out for a weekend or something once in a while…..
Long story short, realized Wife had a hidden dominant side and I’m apparently a switch, and really really like being submissive to her.
Now I’m locked 24/7, very limited piv, somewhat limited erections, and we’re moving towards longer periods of orgasm denial including ruins.
Both of us loving everything about living this way and we’ve both agreed there’s no going back

 

#3 for me.... It's a long story but , I owe it to my Wife(KH) , She put up with me for 29 years. The last five years she has had full control over my sex life. She gets spoiled, like it should be for any woman. I have learned that she never really enjoyed PIV, but did it for me. She has told me she didn't mind giving me oral, but hated swallowing my load, but she did it for me. Now she has full control on our orgasms. She has them, and I don't. She has told me many times if she would have known about men wearing cages and being denied, that I would have had one on from day one. The last five years have been a eye opener for me. I love my Wife more than ever and love being denied. Male chastity has changed our lives. I wonder how things would have been if my Wife would have known about MC 34 years ago...

 

Because I don’t have the key

 

It is 80% number 4 and 20% number 5. So I choose number 4 but my wife caught me being naughty... I'm eating from both sides at this moment.

 

But also it feels good to be good, and I have awakened a more submissive side of me. So a bit of 3 but mostly 4 and if you consider my hand cheating, then definitely 5 as well. I voted 4

 

this is pretty much just like me and although I do love it, it turns out that She loves it more.

Ive been requesting time out of the cage, like maybe a couple of weeks before locktober, and She is not having it.
I’m not going to safe-word or anything, but I’d like a little break.
She will not hear of it.

 

This is actually the reason for me too.
As my Wife always says to me, “good boys don’t cum”
And I do want to be Her good boy.
So She’s got me there

 

The reason I'm in chastity is really simple. I lost a bet. Mistress and I have always loved roleplay. One weekend she in charge next time I'm in charge. Simple right. Well we decided to make it a little more interesting. We decided to have a little game of 8 ball and the winner would choose if they would be Mistress or master. Well I lost and Mistress says that puts her in charge of that thing between my legs. Mistress smiled and says it's going to be fun. One week later I was summoned to my Mistress home. Once there I was ordered to strip. Mistress smiles and says as of today that cock between your legs is now Mistress property. Mistress smiles and showed me the chastity cage she bought and says Mistress property will be caged from this day forward until Mistress decides to end your little journey. Mistress puts the cage on Mistress property smiles as she clicks the lock shut. Steps back smiles and says form this day forward when in Mistress home you're forbidden to wear clothes. Your in training to become Mistress Chastity Slave and that's Mistress property. Mistress smiles and says it's going to be permanent. That was 5 yrs ago.

 

I had a platonic soulmate once. It was a wonderful experience for a few years. I've never known anyone else who I was so in tune with mentally and intellectually. It was so intense the lack of sexuality was irrellevant.

 

It delivers the kind of relationship I want. I wish I understood this better. It isn't directly a matter of submissiveness, exactly. It's just that after a few days of chastity she becomes the center of my life in a way that I find deeply satisfying and totally natural.

 

That's a good way to put it for me as well!

I also liked the response about "wanting to be good".

We started with the cage to allay her fears while I traveled away from her for business. It worked wonders, and brought us much closer the first time we tried it, even though I was on the other side of the world from her.

After a few years using the cage maybe 50-90% of the time, we tried the no-cage "honor system" last year (other than traveling), but we discovered that my attitude sucked.

It's obvious that wearing the cage all of the time helps me be a better husband. And I really want to be a better husband. Problem solved! My attitude is way better, and I'm happily working away on becoming a better husband.

And most recently, I'm 10 pounds down on a 40 pound weight loss program that she is directing.

 

Mainly, it's was #4, a little bit #3.

A lot is because I wanted to love her more sacrificially and be devoted to her which may sound lijje #3.

I've since found that she wants to have sex a whole lot more often now that I can't orgasm. We've never had such a great sex life. I know that without the cage, that would change. I don't want to risk that for anything. She is so much more relaxed in bed knowing I'm not after an orgasm. She's a changed woman. As a result, she is becoming somewhat controlling now.

 

For the homoerotic power exchange.

 

It started because I was basically a serial masturbator… plus it was quite a kink of course. Now it is because my wife prefers it on. She prefers me not to cum. I indulge this of course and it means lots of orgasms for her and occasionally I get my own bits played with which is wonderful. Less really is More !!!
I do get let out once every 3 or 4 months - my wife would prefer if it was less than that !! No PIV now since March - I am hoping I will be allowed that at next release… December (hopefully!!)

 

I don‘t habe a Master/Mistress/KH. So i lock myself because i‘m 100% submissive and don‘t want that my testosteron get‘s in controle.

 

Masturbation prevention and my GF loves it, and especially loves it when I am horny for her and the cage facilitates that.

 

The poll must have changed. I love that my wife keeps me locked and controls me and it also helps me stop from masturbating and focuses my pleasure on her.

 

I am a chronic masturbator. Chastity helps me to control my masturbation. When I am alone and not locked I will just sit and play all day. The orgasms I have doing this are meh! Restricted to once a week or more has helped me enjoy them more. Giving control of when I can orgasm to my wife/KH has heightened the thrill of the chase. Tease and denial is honestly more fulfilling than daily masturbation.

 

i need to stop masturbating.

 

So you have never had PIV with your lady?

 

Is it affecting your intimacy with your wife and does she know you're doing it?

 

#3 and #4 with it being in that order. Had I not been caged, I would have stroked this morning after she went to work. I've had a busy work schedule with odd hours so we have been sharing a meal at night and maybe a few minutes in the morning. Not a lot of time for anything else which usually draws my attention inward toward my own desires.

I love that she has adopted this lifestyle and been very deliberate about what she wants. There is nothing like her coming to bed at night, dropping her bottoms and saying "you're going to lick me now." I'm horny and eager for whatever she wants.