My Goddess and I have been practicing male chastity for about 5 years now. She allows me plenty of teasing, edging, and ruined orgasms. However, I have not had an actual orgasm in almost 3 years. Twice this past month, my Goddess has attempted to give me an orgasm. But both times, I felt nothing. I decided to do a little experimenting on my own. I tried to give myself an orgasm on 2 seperate occasions. I had the same results she did. I was wondering if anyone could clue me in as to what is might be going on? Did not having an orgasm for so long mess me up somehow? Did my Goddess, as she says "break me"?
My experience is that it changes how your brain perceives stimulation of a sexual nature. It is a part of you now. Could that be undone? No. Could it be changed to something else? Perhaps.
Honestly, after a good portion of a year without an orgasm, the first one was terrible. I barely felt the pleasure. The spurt was off. The sensitivity at its peak, just not the same. Orgasms lost their impact. Even ruins were harder to make trickle, if she didn’t remove her hand fully from the shaft it wouldn’t come out at all! I can relate. I imagine it was down to the use of the muscles that create the ‘spasm’. As with any muscle, don’t use it and it becomes weak. I have no idea it this is correct, who’s doing that scientific research?
There's the physical side and the mental side... A large part of sexual arousal is in the brain, and if you don't use it, you'll possibly lose it. After not having orgasms for a long period it might be that you've forgotten the association between the stimulus and the consequential orgasm. Not to worry though, as I've recently discovered with feet it's quite easy to reprogram your brain with new associations. You just have to keep repeating your desired stimulus when you do attempt orgasm and after a while your new mental association will trigger it every time. Choose your poison carefully!
I could get an erection no problem, but did not feel the orgasm. I ejaculated normally, but I felt no pleasure.
That was my initial thought too. I will just need to tell my Goddess she needs to give me more orgasms...haha!
Ejaculation is your body taking care of business of procreation. This is purely physical. Orgasm is what drives you to get to a position with a mate in order to procreate. This is purely mental. They are separate things. If you are not experiencing the delights and euphoria of orgasm when you ejaculate then you probably have a mental hangup somewhere. Speaking as a fully qualified expert in all things related to chastity, denial, and orgasms I prescribe time alone reaquainting yourself with how your mind and body works, if it bothers you.