I want to get my wife to keyhold but she really does not want to have to keep locking and unlocking me. If it's too much trouble she won't participate. The problem is I do Judo and it is absolutely impossible to wear a cage and not be "discovered" so I have to remove it before each session. Has anyone else had this situation and what did you do to make it less burdensome for your keyholder? The only thing I came up with is a timed lockbox so I could release myself and reset the timer for my next session. She would have her own separate key for other times.
Trust method where you each have a key. Ive studies karate for over 40 yrs and always wear a hard cup for contact so its not possible or safe place for cage. When not in a cage i am required to wear a cloth pouch for my package or man panties that are feminine and have a pouch for it.
I am utterly free to remove for sports. My wife and I emphasize the behavior associated with chastity and put relatively little emphasis on numbers/duration. I see no practical solution other than trust. Especially if doing your sport three or more days a week.
I concur with this gentleman. There's not much else you can do if the cage doesn't work for whatever sport(s) you're doing.
I get to remove the cage for workouts that I do with a men's group 3 days a week. She hides the key still and hasn't gotten to wearing it yet, but I just ask her before I leave or she will put it on her bedside table before she goes to bed. I could probably wear the cage for the workouts but she doesn't want me to. I also shave on one of the times during the week. She doesn't think it's a big deal. I also keep Ii on when I go biking on other days. You just have to find out what works. It also helps to be giving her a back rub when you ask for the key.
Could you try the plastic numbered tags? You can send a photo/video of you breaking it off before sport and then another when you put a new one on after you have put your device on when you have finished your sport.
I also do BJJ. If she’s not home I’ll take a pic next to a clock to show I’m locked which also my key in a little cylinder holder with a serial number padlock. Then when I get home I lock back up.
Whenever I ski or play basketball, the cage is removed with no question . In fact, my wife insist on its removal for safety reasons. She hands me the key before I leave for the activity and I must put it back on when I get back home and before I shower. When I swim or do yard work the cage is on and never had a problem or an issue.
I remove the cage every morning before going to the gym and tennis practice that follows. I lock it back on right after showering. If she can't trust me enough to do that, then what's the point of it all? I am not some witless fool who has to stroke one out as soon as I am unlocked - that would be disrespectful. I always have a key available just in case, I just refuse to use it.