Stamina

I have found that the cage after time added to my PE I went from being able to go sadly 5 minutes down to just a couple strokes and I lose it

 

There is one statistic that is hard to overcome. The less practice, the less performance. What you see here is the net effect of less and less PIV- quick O’s. If you want him to keep up his ability to perform but not O, then you need to practice that. Often. When he is close have him pull out and cool off. Repeat until you are satisfied. Do that several times a week. Over time he should stabilize with reasonable stamina.

But do understand that playing with chastity has an inverse effect on penis performance. That’s why so many become so proficient with their tongues instead…

 

Perhaps numbing creams would be answer. I have no experience with this but would seem to give the best of both worlds and a mind fuck to boot

 

The unfortunate fact about male physiology is that the longer a man remains locked, the more sensitive his penis, which in turn leads to becoming more difficult for him to hold back when he has to use it.

You may be able to find ways to work around this. For example, ruining orgasms a short time before sex (assuming he can recover), or removing his cage for edging sessions (not always a guarantee).

Back when I used to be unlocked sometimes, my wife would have me use the strapon first until she was satisfied. Then she would unlock me, so if I did not last long, she was already in a good place.

 

Perhaps numbing cream along with (as you suggested) supervised training with the fleshlight Frau Bayern.☺️

 

so jealous

 

I am sure at this point I have to be numbed to last any time at all. It’s been almost 4 months since I have been unlocked for any use.

 

My lady once had contact to another femdom and tried to desensibilize me.

I had to do daily stroking tasks.
It began with 500 and was raised about 100 per day. At the end we stopped the whole program at 4500 strokes.
No cumming allowed of course.


Effect: I really could be her fucktoy several times a day and in a row, without cumming before her. I didnt orgasm several weeks this way.

My balls shrinked to almost the size of wachteleggs.

It made me stupid and feel like a fuckslut all the time.
I always dreamed of being used for her femdom friends as a fucktoy.

The problem:
She didnt have a better benefit of it anymore comoared to 2000 strokes.

Boring for her and for me, to just knee there and stroke.

4500 strokes have taken me more than 1 hour. Also Because I had to pause in between for not to cum

Small balls.

It made me debile, which nobody of us liked.

I wanted to be a fucktoy also for other women and men, which put away the focus from her.


Well but the stamina has really been increased and I still have the techniques not to cum too fast. So PiV, if she wants it, is much longer and intense than before the training.
Her handjobs can bring me to cum within a minute.

By the way I also wanted to buy a fleshlight for staminatraining.

I think it was Stoya Destroya.

What a funny name..

 

Ar this point, even if I were allowed in a fleshlight, I'd probably lose it and spurt so quick it would be laughable. I have a fleshlight flight but it's never been penetrated. Have been told by the lady she may allow me to enter it one day while she supervises. I explained to her that it would probably be over so quick and she just laughed and she knew.☺️

 

These fleshlights are really hard to take. I have one without texture. Used it 4 years ago or so and it made me cum fast. I dont know how fast it goes with texture inside the channel.

 

Yes they really can be!! I used one with texture about 4 years ago when I had good stamina and I lost it after pumping it for about 5 minutes.

 

Das Zauberwort wäre wohl Karrezza

 

Yes. It got a similar character at the end.

Competitive sports is hard work. Takes much time, slow efforts, despair, loss of selfesteem, demotivation. Hard training, especially outdoors, unable to achieve the targeted goals because the fear of gold.
The permanent fight against the hour and 5 fingers.
I have to be honest. You need to be a tough guy to keep it up.

" Nur die Harten kommen in den Garten."

Maybe we should make a suggestion to the IOC. If they decline, we sell the Idea to a japanese TV show.

Hehe. I like the idea.

 

Ah den kannte ich so noch nicht.

 

I have to agree with much that has been said here. I can go 5-10 minutes even after a long lock up but like so much, she decides how it plays out.

If she decides she wants to get me wound up and then really stimulate me when I start thrusting (her secret weapon is to grab my nipples with her nails dug in and whisper "do you want to come?"). I'm not long if she wills it.

When I'm allowed to go at my own pace, I can manage the excitement and ask her to ease off but even then she gets to a point where wants to take me over the edge. The time between orgasms and the build up of pleasure has me singing like a Viking in opera which she loves to initiate.

If we had an abundance of time for an extended session, I'd suggest she ruin the first one and my eagerness to tend to her wouldn't be diminished so stamina wouldn't be an issue for the second round.

This is a difficult question to answer since it would be dependent on the day, the horniness index and how much testosterone is surging. I say try a method, expect failure and have a backup. Experimentation is the best sex even when it isn't what you intended.

No matter what happens, the cage goes back on the moment you're done. No delay.

 

Yes, my GF teases and edges me, and even after a long time locked without any sexual contact, I can still last if I want to.

This book will help, but he has got to want to do it, as it takes a lot of concentration: https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/

Success leads to greater intimacy, longer love making, and a lot of fun, in my opinion.

I found, after being locked for a while, if she edged me prior to making love I was better able to stay away from the edge when we were making love, and the more that happened the easier it got. I can't say that I mastered it but I could see how it would work longer term.