When do you consider chastity becoming “real”

I agree, there are so many that just don’t quite get it right. I’ve received them from a lot of people and I can say only 3 of those were good at them! Fortunately, my wife can be counted in that, she is incredible. I found out on our second date.
The REALLY bad ones will always remain in my memory. One said they were amazing, sucked it like a porn star; bobbing, rotating, tongue action, fast motions… honestly, they could have been at it for hours without making me climax. Think there’s a lesson in that about concerning yourself more about the pleasure you are giving than how good you think you look whilst doing it.
I’ve had even worse than that though, one girl put it in her mouth and just, well, nothing. It was just in… I erm, I’m still baffled by that one.

 

I would have married her for those blow jobs alone tbh .

 

But you should never ever underestimate the ability of sucking in such an unmotivated way, that even the horniest boner becomes flacid as if he got an injction with fabric softener.

 

I wonder, if I could be so bad or cruel, to give such a bad BJ.
I assume, every snowball would be perceived as a better alternative.

 

As a man whose wife has not given a proper BJ in the quarter century I have been with her- this whole conversation is more frustrating than chastity itself...

 

I keep asking my wife, "Do you really want this?" and she says, "yes".

I ask her why and she says, "You don't deserve to cum".

I think it's real now.

 

I honestly considered blow job ability as a factor when choosing a wife. I had several women as options at the time so I had to weigh the choice carefully. But I was young and stupid - I should have taken at least 2 wives at the same time.

 

The first time I tried chastity a few years ago, I was basically a self-locker so the novelty wore off. Having gotten back into it the last month and giving the key to my wife, her active participation( instructing me when to take it on and off, feeling me up in the cage, teasing and denying) has taken the realness factor to another level, as I'm no longer in control of accessing it without her knowledge and consent. I even felt guilty the other day trying to sneak in a porn/masturbation session when she wasn't around, so mentally I'm starting to be as locked as I am physically.

 

We marked me being 'owned' with a PA piercing, this is when it became real for me. The none custom devices are too easy to slip out of, so that was more fantasy.

 

Also a bicycle too, I am told.

 

Everybody rode it once.

 

Enjoy it.

 

Early on during our journey, my Wife/KH went along with chastity because I asked her to. She thought it would be fun to try and possibly spice things up.

It became real for us when she came to the realization that she now enjoys chastity more than I do Don't get me wrong, I love being locked up by her and teased, but now, she likes our life together better with me locked up in chastity. She loves the control she has over me and enjoys looking for ways to push things further.

At the beginning of April, she told me that she would be implementing a couple of changes to our weekly routine to ensure my submissiveness and further develop her dominance. Every Friday, she unlocks me for a thorough cleaning and shaving. She now sets out a pair of her panties while I am in the shower and puts them on me after locking me back up. She enjoys making jokes about "my" panties. Her rule is that they only come off when she decides to take them off after our evening out together.

She also has started some initial anal training. Sunday afternoon, she loves to nap and decided that I should start sleeping with an anal plug in. She finds it makes me want to cuddle more while I leak through my cage that is pressed up against her.

I know she has more in store for me as we continue to develop in our perspective roles, and I am excited to follow where she leads.

When you are at the point where you want to be let out of chastity but your KH does not want to release you, and never wants to go back to a vanilla life....Chastity Has Become Real!

 

In my eye when you are not in control no matter how much you ple or beg and she will not release you