Dear all, I stumbled across this website two years ago or something like that, but only made a profile just recently. I am a 30 year old man from Norway. I first discovered the existence of chastity cages about five years ago. A couple of years ago, I told my wife, who has never been into any serious bondage stuff, about my fascination of the idea, and we went to an adult store where she picked out one she liked. We tried it out and played with it for a little while, but soon put it away. However, the thought of being caged has continued to excite me. At the end of 2022 I got a new cage which fit better so it would be possible to go long term. I asked my wife if she would want to try locking me, and she agreed. We later sat down and had a conversation about how the cage changes the dynamic and how I naturally treat her and our relationship. We both enjoy the effects of the cage, and she even tells me it's sexy looking. She laughingly refers to me as her slave when she tells me to get stuff done around the house, and it seems to me she is enjoying taking advantage of it more every day. Some weeks ago I was unlocked and we had not agreed on any new lock up. We had a small disagreement about something (not an argument even), and she said "You are being too grumpy, I think you should put the cage on". I did, and I have no idea if she is planning on just leaving it on or if she will let it out at some point. She has me take it off for a thorough cleaning in the shower every day, but then expects me to put it back on so she can lock it. A couple of days ago we were visiting her sister, and there was a situation where when we were alone in the living room, I commented that something my wife had done was wrong of her. Earlier she would have apologized, but this time she really caught me off guard. She immediately gave my cage and balls a firm slap, told me that I am not allowed to talk to her like that, and slapped me one more time. I really love how this is evolving, and looking forward to what comes next.
Hi would you like to be her cuckold? Or is that too far for both of you? Because if she wanted to cuckold you it would be her choice anyway as she should have total control of you like my wife does with me
Congratulations to a good start to your chastity journey. I hope that in future you will still be able to raise issues with your wife, as happened at your sister's house. Though you may have to learn more tact and diplomacy, to indicate that you weren't entirely happy about what happened, but in a way that is not a personal affront; in the way most women learn to do as they grow up, but few men do.