Are you being trained?

As you can see in many replies, masturbation control is a big one. Many men desire this, regardless of cock cages, keyholders, femdom, etc. Many men struggle with porn addiction and masturbation from an early age. Not surprisingly, women don't like their man jacking off to pictures/videos of other women. Some women are jealous types. They don't take this well at all. But even non-jealous women aren't too keen of male masturbation. Sex is part of intimacy for women and intimacy is to be shared between them and their partner. I get the impress women always feel betrayed when their man is engaging in sexual activity without them, even masturbation.

Otherwise the sky is the limit. Many women fail to realize the full potential of their power once they have control of their man's genitals and orgasms. Truth be told they can train you to do anything they want. Some take it far (see the sissy and cuckold boards) and some don't. It's really up to her at that point.

Another common refrain I hear is women use this to train their man to be a better lover. Better at giving oral sex. Better at pleasuring her. Or simply more affectionate, cuddly. Or more productive at home, getting chores done (with or without her direct orders). Orgasm denial causes some hormonal changes in a man and gives him more energy for productive tasks. I get a lot of items crossed off my to-do list when I'm in denial let me tell you.

 

I am most certainly being trained. I have been trained not to compulsively masterbate any more. My wife says i am a work in progress. She wont say exactly what her end game is but she is doing it subtly so i wont notice or resist.

 

I don't feel as if I'm being trained; but more as if I being guided down a path towards a goal that is still unknown to me.. I do know that since I surrendered myself completely to Di, my life has changed - for the better, and I hope I never go back to being that selfish, male-centric person I was before.

 

You can put me down for just about everything on true's list. A few more:

• Not to say "No" to questions that have an obvious "Yes" answer or to requests to do something for her that I should be doing
• Not to go off by myself to watch something different on the TV
• Not to leave the house without telling her where I'm going
• To keep her car washed and filled with gas
• Not to open a bottle of wine without offering her a glass
• Not to fall asleep anywhere but in our bed

I could add more, but I think you get the point.

Oh, and when she does release me for an O, she doesn't want it to take forever.

 

So i started being trained around 25 years ago, just in a leather ball strap and cock ring, then gradually over the years i've been trained to accept being in chastity, being trained to be a cuckold, then anally trained, and am now well trained in being a sissy submissive, i've enjoyed all my training and still serve my wife in any way she pleases

 

I think I've written those exact words before myself (except the name "Di")

 

Trained? Here we are, 5 weeks later after a failed chastity session attempt and she's come around exactly as I thought she would. We had sex 3 times yesterday and I guess she had her fill of orgasms because throughout the day she started talking about putting me back in my cage. To "play the game." And was sort of asking me for my consent. But I told her exactly how I realized it had to be after the last failure: if she wants, when she wants, how she wants, by her rules, for as long as she wants, and no contract. She thought about it for a little bit then smiled (we were in bed) and said, "I want you back in your cage, your training has lapsed and you need me in control." She must have been scheming and preparing this for some time because when she got to work this morning she copy-pasted a message to me which involved several tasks she wants me to work on, including learning a difficult foreign language with an explicit threat of extended days in chastity for every WORD I fail to memorize per day (this could actually turn into permanent chastity).

The message went:

As for the other thing...
Now that I have control over you, I would like to send you some tasks for the day and the week.

In order to please me this week, I will send you some things I wish to see happen.

Since it's still a regular working week, your training will be closely connected with everyday life.
...
[tasks]
...

For every word you don't know you might get an extra day of caging. Hope that gets you motivated.

Hope you have a good day my love and hope your training goes well.

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I'm excited and happy about this development needless to say!

 

Not being trained (yet).