Being self locked and a possible new key holder

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    I just spoke to a woman that I have dated in the past. She is into the lifestyle. She was ready to lock me up and hold my key until she found out I was self locked. She said that I was vulnerable and she couldn’t take advantage of me like that. So, we will see if this goes anywhere.
     
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    You're sure you've not been involved in this previously
     
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    What do you mean?
     
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    We went out and we discussed things but never had anything progress further than that. If that’s what you mean.
     
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    Now you're willing to explore further?
     
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    Oh. I have been locked before, just not by this particular lady. Last year, I spent 9 months locked. 5 months being the longest continuous period.
     
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    She has also been a key holder before, just not for me.
     
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    I understand what she means. Especially if you haven’t been locked for very long on this lock up. The first week always has me ready to get myself into something extreme. Of course it settles down after a couple weeks and I can think more clearly.

    Maybe if you spend a couple weeks locked and tell her you still want to explore the option of her holding the keys?
     
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    Ahhh
    How do you feel,whats your limited time to be locked,, you fantasies to explore more of this kinky you have. But not with your that lady that locked you
     
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    I have been working to get my time up. If I find the right key holder I would like to explore long term lock up with just maintenance unlocking. Also, it depends on how active the key holder is.

    I had one key holder that teased me constantly. That was a very tough 3.5 months. It was over a week before I could remove the ring due to the swelling in my balls.
     
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    she wants me unlocked when the decision is made. So, I am free for now.
     
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    Good luck
     
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    Thanks.
     
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