Too scared to add more time.

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    #26 Subbenji, Feb 9, 2023
    I might forget that I have a penis by that time.
     
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    #27 Miss Bella, Feb 9, 2023
    +7 days from me, big guy— enjoy!
     
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    #28 sis_nikki, Feb 9, 2023
    +another 7 days (and being a senior IT sissy, may have setup a calendar reminder to vote again in 24 hrs) ;-)

    "Hard" truth (pun intended), YOU locked it, meaning you made a judgement call.
    This is now the community showing their love and support to you and your communicated goal! <3

    After the ~356 days (at the time of my vote) are up, you will presumably have a new high-quality life-style on your hands!

    Have you discussed down-sizing options with your key-holder?
    Because at those times, you are suggested to consider the following, if you will accept advice from an Alpha-Sissy Mommy:
    • stocking up on heavy cream moisturizer: Aveeno Daily Moisturizer (get the off-brand that is clearly taking lead from Aveeno)
    • sizing down options, your profile shows a "50 mm steel cage", a great start, but where do you go from there (aside from shorter?)
    • pick-up an epilator kit, at over a year you are going to want to get top-game on your personal upkeep, epilator seems risky at first, but no blade involved so just shock of initial pull pain, and then you are in the groove for long-term smoothness
    • you may need / want some Vaseline jelly to help with the "bit o' slip" requirements many have from time to time
    • "containment garments" unless you are blessed to be able to walk around in skirts & flowy dresses all day?
    • cage-cleaning during "deep clean" days, do you have a 2nd of the same kind to swap in vs having all tools needed to do a THROUGH scrub of the apparatus before locking back up?
    • recommend you get a "denture brush" to facilitate your deep cleaning efforts, BE METICULOUS as this is going to be your CONSTANT companion for more than a year
    • consider getting some toys (if permitted) to help "drain off the pressure" (small / medium / large, therapeutic training program)
    • get a "Magic Wand (Rechargeable)" to keep near your bed, will help to relieve tension for the early days of morning wood (UNAUTHORIZED, trying to "escape"), yes there is a "mini" version, but for the INVESTMENT, spend for the extra POWER (and get an aftermarket "cap" to further extend utility)
    • find yourself falling into place / getting complacent? consider starting to take maca supplements (especially right before bed) to "enhance" the experience (ensure your KH has lots of red-wine to enjoy while they take in the spectacle of you squirming from unsanctioned arousal)
    Luck to you, on what is hopefully a challenging (in that one leading to personal growth and discovery) lock! <3
     
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    #29 Subbenji, Feb 9, 2023
    Thank y’all but please please stop voting I didn’t know I couldn’t delete the thread but I want to be able to masturbate for my 24th birthday in November 2024
     
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    #30 Subbenji, Feb 9, 2023
    Omg they setup reminders so I could be locked for a couple years. Because turns out my keyholder on the site is my roommate with the emergency key and I told him not let me out until the time is complete. So yes I’ll definitely take your advice
     
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    #31 jemima, Feb 9, 2023
    i have not gived you more cos i think it a shame and folks shud stop do it.
     
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    #32 Jay Sub, Feb 10, 2023
    Dropped to 108 days. What happened?
     
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    #33 littleguy3, Feb 10, 2023
    You already have too much time! You'll never make it 157 days!
     
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    #34 filltee, Feb 11, 2023
    Unlocked already I see..
    " I’m trying to push myself into long term chastity but I can’t bring myself to add time myself. So can you add time for me."

    that was waste of a lot of people's time then
     
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    #35 jc7655, Feb 11, 2023
    To be honest the lock added 7 days per vote that is pretty rough with a public link. Sometimes it is hard to gauge the popularity of the post, but I would blame the lock configuration more than the lockee. 50 votes added a year... ...but it would have been nice to see him struggle a lot longer
     
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    #36 Subbenji, Feb 12, 2023
    Update:
    So when I post the thread I didn’t know that you cannot take it down. I was challenged by my roommate (who turn out to also be the keyholder) to post a thread on here for 2 days. We both didn’t expect for as many vote on my lock as it got. That’s why it was add 7 days and not like 1 or 2 day.

    With 50 days being the longest I’ve been lock consecutively to jump to 574 days the last time I seen the lock time is pretty insane. Also, with the vote continually coming in, I don’t think I’m ready for permanent chastity.

    For the those who may think this was a waste of time, rest asure i have my work cut out for the next year and 7 months.

    How I will be serving my lock time:
    The time will be in sets with a one day break in between with the following set increases by 30 days.
    Break Down:
    Set 1: 60 days
    1 day break
    Set 2: 90 days
    1 day break
    Set 3: 120 days
    1 day break
    Set 4: 150 days
    1 day break
    And the final Set
    Set 5: 154 days

    Rules I must follow while locked.
    (Enforced by Keyholder)
    - if I cum at anytime that is not from anal stimulation or hands free, break days will be removed and the time will start over and will be forced to be locked for the full 574 consecutively.
    - all hygiene openings must be monitored to insure no unnecessary touching is done.

    So I like to say thank you all for the vote but y’all are crazy lol. If anyone have tips on the best way to anally situate yourself please let me know.
     
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    #37 Miss Bella, Feb 12, 2023
    The best advice I can give if you're looking to find pleasure via 'other routes' is to not try to 'push' as in the same way when you would try to 'push yourself' towards an orgasm normally. just allow good feelings to be just that, enjoy it, clinch and release muscles if you have to, and don't have a goal other than feelin' good. you'll break through after enough practice but don't feel bad if it takes a lot of time.

    This subreddit should also help a ton
    https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/
     
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    #38 Subbenji, Feb 12, 2023
    I made an update on what’s going to happen going forward. But my keyholder is new with chaster.app so he didn’t know how to block the link, all he knew was how to remove the time. He did but more votes came in shooting the time back up so we restart the lock completely.
     
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    #39 Subbenji, Feb 12, 2023
    Thank you i greatly appreciate it.
     
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    #40 jc7655, Feb 12, 2023
    If you have your keyholder set to trusted they are able to adjust all the settings of the lock. You have to trust the keyholder under your lock settings I believe. Then they can change the share link settings or remove the option completely.
     
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    #41 madams-sissysub, Feb 13, 2023
    Now deserted.
     
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    #42 Jay Sub, Feb 13, 2023
    I will never vote on a chaster lock again.
     
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    #43 Subbenji, Feb 14, 2023
    Oooh ok Thank you, yea we didn’t know how it work. The only way I knew was just to start it completely over, then I knew that the shared link would be different. I’ll let him know so we can test it out and so he can know for next time.
     
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    #44 Subbenji, Feb 14, 2023
    Sorry, but don’t let my ignorance of chaser be the reason you don’t vote on other locks. Almost everyone else knows and understand the workings of the site and how to properly create and/or use the lock.
     
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    #45 KaiKitai, Mar 28, 2023
    You are so kind for offering so much advice to him ❤️
     
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