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    Male chastity control, corrective discipline reinforced with penalties, and sissification and feminisation, I honestly believe are all effective methods actively reframing feminism and detoxifying harmful masculine traits.
     
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    I cant agree with you more. My feminization years ago made me such a more loving caring person
     
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    Finally accepting what I am helped me so much become a softer, kinder, person. My wife helping me with my submission, servitude and exploring my fem side has made me a better person.

    Being a submissive with rules has changed my life. i wish I would have started this 20-30 years ago.
     
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    For me I believe this to be true:

    Male chastity control and corrective discipline reinforced with penalties are all effective methods actively detoxifying harmful masculine traits.

    I think the feminisation and sissification is a separate subset that is fed into with chastity control and discipline.
    I have no desire to be a sissy, this however does not mean that I don’t find the whole experience of chastity feminising in its own way (just without panties and suspenders).
     
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    Do you also want criticism? Okay.

    I'm sorry, but a man in women's clothes looks very disgusting. You maybe not see it, but I and most people sees it.
     
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    Each to their own, thanks for your comment. Cheers 9219149B-47DC-41FA-A1B8-F885B1AA4A06.jpeg
     
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    I think the term toxic masculinity is over used.
     
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    See, disgusting is a relative term. I could use an infinite number of words to explain why your comment is ignorant and unhelpful to kendle , but I generally don’t like wasting my time talking to zoo animals.
     
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    There are male traits and female traits, some people are blended and some switched. If you talk about Toxic masculinity you have to talk about toxic feminity in the same breath. If you want to Identify as a female and feel good about yourself thats awesome but I don't think you can say that males are toxic. That ship has long been disproven.
     
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    Read the OP again, and you’ll observe I did not talk of toxic masculinity. You’re interpretation is choosing to see my words and assigning to some platitudinous over use of a phrase that frankly has got your panties in a wad.
     
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    Please read OP again!
     
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    I'm sorry young man, but the massive commonality of sexism and female inequality in society disproves your dis-proof.
    Not that there can't be toxic females, but as a whole the oppressor class does not get to claim to be oppressed.
     
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    Please define Harmful masculine traits
     
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    I dont generally dwell on masculinity traits or worry about perceptions of people that are not in important in my life. I believe I am submissive first to my Mistress/wife and KH. With that I welcome and accept the femdom/sissification/corrective action/punishment, etc that is part of that choice.

    If those were not what my Mistress and my KH were also in favor of , I would likely not be as I am here.

    Perhaps for some its chicken and egg...which comes first ... the "effective methods" that result in submissiveness or submissive nature where "effective methods can be an important part of that world.

    Masculine traits are not the question here for me. There are certainly times I have been and still am "masculine" for my Mistress and in life, but it feels more of a necessity for the situation. Its just not what dominates me.
     
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    Donald Trump
     
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    Lol ok but he was better than what we have now, but I digress I won't get into politics because it doesn't belong on this site.
    And I'm from Delaware I know everything about our current incumbent
     
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    I’m originally from Grass Valley, CA
     
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    Bet it's beautiful there
     
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    I still call it home although I’ve been in Scotland for 10 years.
     
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    Politics aside, I think the point is a man who is a ‘paper tough guy’… bereft of anything resembling rational thought and positively infantile when fairly criticized.

    Have you ever heard him admit he misspoke? Or didn’t have good intel that he had potentially misread?
    Of course not, it’s YOU who misheard. And if you didn’t and didn’t agree, YOU are the problem. Such a 5th grade playground bully mentality that is wholly unimpressive.

    Anyone who doesn’t agree with my specific line of bullshit is somehow either wrong or ‘the enemy’… sounds like a man who’s trying to be the loudest in the room and act like that’s why he’s ‘in the right’

    the man believes you have a finite amount of energy and that’s why he doesn’t exercise…. That’s an absolutely presidential thought, through and through.

    I relate more as a fellow human to your average refrigerator than to that shell of a person.

    I don’t pretend to like the old fossil now but trying to defend the previous doofus is always going to ring hollow.


    You can attribute some of the most abhorrent ‘toxic’ male qualities easily to him… moved on her like a bitch , just gotta grab em by the pussy? Anyone?… Buehler?
     
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    #21 Caged for life, Jan 27, 2023
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    Lol I've heard dementia boy personally say worse so Buhler back to you
    And we won't get into how he was cheating on his wife before the poor lady passed from cancer
     
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    OMG I so want to see Scotland it's beautiful.
    And I would like to apologize for allowing myself to get off topic, I'm sorry it won't happen again.
     
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