I was thinking of doing an anonymous poll about the gender identity of the male CM members. Suggestions on categories please. Straight Gay Bi Straight Sissy Straight Sissy forced bi? Bi Sissy Gay Sissy Trans
Go for it. If for no other reason, as a non sissy male, that keeps being told I should be, to assure me I'm not the only non sissy interested in chastity.
Pansexual male. But I often shorthand it bisexual. It’s funny just about all of my friends know minus a few vanilla ones. Work related folks have no clue of my orientation as I don’t share my social life. Family assumes I’m straight. As for a survey. I think it would be fun to see what folks here are willing to share. Or not if they choose not to.
You’re not alone. I’m not a sissy. Although I do enjoy crossdressing now and then. And my new partner is cool with it. In fact she has talked about going shopping with me.
This is exactly why this needed saying. I roll my eyes every time someone suggests "you should make him wear panties" on a post that hasn't suggested any inclination in that direction. Each to their own, I make no judgements... But it's interesting where the "why" and "what's the point" comes from. I am curious whether it is true or not, that chastity often leads to fem/sis. There is quite a lot of posts that suggest it does. We have nothing to lose from knowledge. What are you afraid of? That you might be a minority? So what if you are. We all are really. I embrace the fact that we are all different. That I'm different.
Sounds interesting! I think it would be worth also having variations on "Sub" in the same way you have for Sissy.
We've already had a poll which asked levels of chastity, and it is a minority that are not in chastity on CM. So the new Poll should assume that everyone is in chastity, at least some of the time. (Sub By Default) to my definition, is someone like me. Not naturally submissive, but we both the submissiveness that I express because of the denial, which has many relationship benefits. Straight (SBD) Gay (SBD) Bi (SBD) Straight Sissy Straight Sissy forced bi? Bi Sissy Gay Sissy Trans Straight Sub Gay Sub Bi Sub Trans Sub. Anymore for any more. Or is it... Any more for anymore....Could it be...Any more for any more?... I think its..., Any more for any more anymore?
Are you trying to poll gender identity, fetish, or sexuality? Because it seems like your categories are spread across all of those. Maybe I'm just not being politically correct or maybe I'm just ignorant (both sadly possible) but to me 'straight sissy' and 'gay sissy' is a mash of 2 things, sexual orientation and fetish. And do either of those categories even address gender identity? Also polls on chastity on a website called chastity mansion...
I'm egg before chicken. I just realised that masturbating was so self-absorbing, and she was having sex when she wasn't into it, and when she was I was lasting too long. I was pressuring her and not being honourable. Instantly made me want to change. The rest followed after. If I could guarantee she would enjoy sex three times a week, I don't think chastity would have been on the cards.
Just interesting what the mix of people here is like. Don't care much about PC myself. Problem is people take things too seriously. But am inclusive, broadminded, and nonjudgmental. Another interesting one might be level of education and job status.
There are some people here that are just so into their fantasy world that they can’t help themselves.
Orientations are complex so do some research (not just asking for input) or your poll will be a dumpster fire.
Yes we have that. I think there are a few types of people here. But I think we all come here for a bit of relief from the stress of every day life. That said, I've said it over and over, I wish the fantasy would stay in the fiction section or be made clear it's fantasy.
So you actually have two very different genders... One that most of your friends know you as, and one that your family know you as. And doubtless, you also act to those very different genders in those different environments. (If you didn't, your secret would be out!) We're all very malleable in personality and can continually maintain very different personalities, roles and hierarchy in different aspects of our lives, in both sexual and non-sexual areas. A non sexual example would be a mother who is totally dominant over her children, but who is submissive to the classroom control of her evening study group tutor. Sometimes even the same two people will have opposite roles in different scenarios, for example the policeman who defers to the authority of a judge in a courtroom, but that same judge would have to obey that same policeman if he was pulled over for a traffic violation. I have personally known a married couple who worked together and who were also both in the same volunteer military unit. In former the guy outranked the lady, and in the latter the lady outranked the guy.
"Years have passed, now I'm sexually liberated. I don't care who's a fag no more. I mean who cares?" Movie quote from "Slap Shot" (1977). Still, it's always interesting to have data... Not to find out if I'm in the minority or majority, because I really don't care... I love facts for interest sake. As mentioned, something like this is just so complex that it's hard to fit into a series of checkboxes.