Suggestions on chastity challenges / games

Hi,

My wife's libido is really driven by her hormonal cycle, and there's always about 12-15 days each month when sex is really not in her mind. So during these days even teasing me is out of the equation since she feels "asexual" as she says.

I love being denied, but I need to "fuel my frustration". After about 5 days with no teasing whatsoever, I always end up feeling quite down until her libido kicks in again, which leaves us with a 10 day period every month that is frustrating in a bad way for the both of us.

My wife and I are really conscious about this whole pattern and we are trying to find ways around it. I was thinking that maybe some kind of games / challenges for me during this time of the month could help me keep eroticising my chastity. The hard part being that it shouldn't need to be sex oriented for her, but it should be able to tease me at the same time...

Any idea or suggestion would be gladly welcomed !

Thanks !

 

Thanks a lot for the link to the very interesting thread you started. I already do most of the housekeeping tasks but I'm not able to eroticise that.
But it gave me several ideas in addition to the feet massage I give her every evening, like applying body lotion to her after her evening shower for instance, or washing her hair. Can't believe I did not think about this by myself!

 

Thanks for the suggestion. I had the idea to try something like an aneros, and it may indeed be a thing she would « allow » me to do when she’s not in the mood for anything involving herself.
I told her I would like to try pegging someday, but that’s out of topic here!