She should give you her keys, but keep yours, then things could get really interesting (or confusing, lol). What if she decides to unlock you, but you decide not to unlock her, hmmm.
Unless you are in control of her keys then I don't see how it would be bottoming from the top. Maybe she needs to protect herself from your wandering fingers/tongue and that's the only way to do it! Personally I've often thought about what it would be like to have a third-party Dom(me) lock both of us, keeping us both denied and horny for his/her pleasure... but again that would be topping from a different direction entirely!
Technically, if you are self-locking in chastity you are both topping yourself and bottoming to yourself as would be true of any self bondage. The Top in any activity is the person doing something to someone. The bottom is the one who is having something done to them. “Topping from the Bottom” is in my opinion a nonsense phrase as there are no inherently Dominant nor Submissive activities. It is commonly understood to mean the submissive is trying to manipulate their Dominates behavior. It is portrayed as disrespectful behavior by a sub. It can simply be ignored or perverted by the Dominant so it’s really “not a thing”. I just thought I’d present something even more nonsensical “bottoming from the top”. I thought it was a fun way to make my point. So far it’s an Epic fail!
Ahahaha I totally missed that... I definitely read it as "topping from the bottom" and responded accordingly... even though I typed it out myself! Carry on then.
I do have a cool fetish -fueled marriage. But my wife doesn’t lock herself. It was just a hypothetical to make a point in a fun way. Which almost no one understood. Total communication failure on my part. Apparently, I’ve lost my sarcasm mojo!
I actually love the idea of this. 3 months locked up. Time to allow some release… “You can go inside me now…. Wait what? Am I in chastity too? Looks like it’s another 90days without PIV!” (That’s if a woman ever once referred to sex as ‘PIV’. Which in my experience they don’t)
I tried teasing her once. I won’t make that mistake again. I am pretty confident chastity would not be of interest to her. It is a hot thought however. It would make a for a very interesting dynamic.
The score is now 6 failures to understand versus two who understood the Snark. I take full responsibility for this failed thread. Oh well.