Frenulum Piercing with an Active Lifestyle

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    Hi! A little backstory: I've been wearing chastity for a while off and on. But I now have a Goddess that wants me in chastity pretty much permanently. My concern is shrinkage so her solution is for me to get a piercing. So! I'm trying to figure out the right piercing to get, I don't want a PA honestly because I hate the look and am considering a frenum Piercing. My only concern is that I live a very active lifestyle with constant working out, snowboarding, and mountain biking. And I'm worried the piercing could cause damage with me living such an active lifestyle. Does anyone have any experience with frenum piercings and an active lifestyle? Or any advice? Thank you!
     
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    shrinkage is a myth, unless she is chemically castrating you and feeding you female hormones, which will cause everything down there to shrink and hair to stop growing as much.

    you can cause a little bit of short term length reduction with extended cage periods but a few nights of nocturnal erections and you should be back to your old self even after a year with no unlocks.

    the most important factor in long term chastity is an open and true stainless or titanium cage that allows plenty of air flow and is easy to get a complete cleaning. nothing kills the mood faster than a painful skin rash/infection in a very unfortunate place from not being able to clean off sweat, dead skin cells, urine and precum residue, etc.

    nothing is ever "permanent" in this lifestyle. there will be airports and medical procedures, etc, and you will take it off for that. never force your kink on innocent security/medical staff if you can help it. no matter how horny the thought of being humiliated explaining the situation makes you. If your keyholder demands it, you need to have a serious discussion with her. At the end of the day, chastity is a game we play for thrills. not something to be taken with deadly seriousness anywhere except for in the bedroom/house

    That said. a PA is likely the most comfortable chastity related piercing. And it has the added effect of making your urine stream somewhat more erratic than the cage alone, forcing you to sit to pee no matter what situation your in. Which is a submissive kick that a lot of men get off on. The other types of piercings have a higher likelyhood of snagging on clothing while active due to how they come out the side instead of out the tip.
     
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    Okay, thank you so much! And a metal cage wouldn't be anything bad during the winter if I'm on the border to Canada?
     
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    I have both piercings. Frenums are not nearly as durable as a PA . I haven’t used it for 28 years to secure a chastity device. My PA has proven trouble free for decades.
     
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    I have a frenum pirecing. I practice kungfu with fighting. No trouble at all. It needs longer healing than you always hear. Then it will be good.

    Shrinkage only exists in the brain of us. No real issue.
     
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    I have had a frenum piercing for around 12 years and been locked in a piercing attached steel badassworkroom cage for the last year+.

    No problems at all.
     
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    Hi
    How much time will it take for a frenum piercing
     
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    Hi.
    The first pain after piercing went away after about one week. Pain after manipulation like PiV or cleaning lasted for about 2 months.
    Now it is 3 months and i dont feel no pain or so.
    I guess these 3 months, the piercers always give you as advice, are a good time for the healing.
     
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    We switched to a ringless frenum secured device about two years ago. It was life changing for me, I am able to ride man bike, go to the gym, hike, travel etc without issue. The piercing does not interfere with my life at all.

    I know alot of users here are very pro metal and that is probably great for some. However ours is 3D printed nylon material. What I love most is it is light so limits the stress on the piercing. For us it is the best option.

    Take the time for it to heal completely. We took about four months before I was wearing the device full time a little over a month longer than the piercer recommended.
     
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    Yes the longer the tissue can cure, the better.
     
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    I row a lot, and have a frenum, currently locked up in a titanium ba cage with no issues at all (apart from being horny as heck)
     
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    I'm circumsized and the duration of healing was only a month.
    Is it so long for frenum that it goes upto 3 months?
     
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    I can vouch for the need for airflow! Surgical nylon is another alternative to stainless steel or titanium.
     
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    Als weitere Variante würde ich ein Produkt von "Tether Spout" empfehlen.
    Dazu braucht man kein Piercing.
    Die Anwendung ist am Anfang nicht ganz einfach aber Übung macht den Meister.
    Selber trage den "Tether spout" schon ein ganzes Jahr
     
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