Hi all, First thing I need to do is to apologise to you all. I left this site one and a half years ago without saying goodbye. Special sorry for the ones that followed me. I was self locking and in search of a key holder, I really need some interaction. During the self locking my cage broke and I was actually fed up with it, but when time passes I felt the urge to lock again. So here I am again, with a slightly smaller cage that I hope won’t break and with a different mindset I think. Throughout my break chastity was on mind regularly and I did read about it a lot, which let me to a better understanding of what fits me best. The key holder I am looking for enjoys her sub to crave and beg for release, giving tasks for rewards, but does not hesitate to punish. Releases are a thankful gift, they are not to be taken for granted. Only when the key holder enjoyed herself there is a chance for release where te key holder decides what is allowed and with which terms. Happy to be back DutchGuy