I’m new to it sort of, been off and on for almost a year. My wife and I recently had a discussion on evening out my sex drive to match hers. I’m highly driven, and we have a very active sex life, but two to three times a day was to much. I remembered my cage, we talked. Now she controls it 100%. We are only on day two, so any advice is welcome! Nice to meet y’all!!!
Both of you are on the right track. The man has to give up and be restrained for her. No way should a man waste his sexual buildup and energy elsewhere other than to her. You are lucky to be able to sacrifice by lowering your needs to match hers.. imagine she being the one ever needy and you cant keep up with her…