Chastity has ruined porn for me

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    Well.....most of what I used to like anyway.

    I always preferred to look at women in porn, and now I'm a chaste husband most of the relevant videos are focused on the male sub's genitalia. Not saying it's a bad thing, though my change in focus us beneficial in many ways, just a point of discussion.

    How have your tastes changed?
     
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    I am absolutely dumbfounded by my recent lack of interest in porn. I spent 2 decades addicted to masturbating to femdom porn, and now that Goddess has taken to Her role as Goddess and KH, I have all but lost interest in anything but Her.
     
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    Oh goodnes I want to experience that.

    Right now every thought has porn in it and I think I am more addicted to porn than when we started.
     
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    My tastes are always on the move.
    If you remain locked you may be surprised where you end up.
     
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    Not having a partner or a keyholder but being locked all the time makes me crave porn!

    I either watch femdom chastity tease or humilation videos or gay guys fucking with the bottom in chastity (love that)

    I guess it makes me watch more lol
     
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    There was definitely a conscious effort on my part to put my phone down and focus more on Her. But some of it also just happened, as part of the 'rewiring' I guess.
     
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    Mine too
     
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    I can so relate to this.

    Once upon a time I was down a deep rabbit hole with male dom / bdsm porn when I started chastity years ago. Looking back on it, I told myself chastity was an attempt to stop my masturbation, more likely it was just one more step deeper into kink. I think the pain of wearing and getting hard in a cheap chastity device while watching porn broke or faded the spell it had on me.

    Like a lot in this group I guess, I've taken a more intellectual approach and am more interested in looking at locked cocks and reading reviews to see what device fits best and may work for my next purchase. Yeah, there is some fem dom in there, some humiliation and admiring restrictive clothes of cross-dressers, but way different amount and content than the past.

    I do agree, having a real partner trumps porn. It's a crazy thing we do to ourselves, but I'm OK with it.
     
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    I settled into a comfortable device within a week of starting. Erections are stifled but not painful. Frustrating but very pleasant. So I spend a lot less time on it and I'm more likely to look at some inspirational chastity captions for my porn intake instead. They arouse and at the same time encourage me to be good and get you through those times when denial can seem a bit overwhelming. Reminding me why I need to stay with strong.

    I still like and prefer pictures of women in bondage, the male form does nothing for me, and as I enjoy the beauty, I imagine myself in their predicament.
     
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    "Chastity has ruined porn for me"

    That's the point!!!!!

    It's suppose to help you focus on your partner. Not on yourself. Not on porn. But on pleasing YOUR PARTNER!
     
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    I am hoping so...maybe feeling it a little but oh boy the horny crazy desperate to have an erection feelings overwhelm everything else.

    My KH claims in a month or two I'll feel very different - I think she means that I'll do anything for her then I think she might be right :p
     
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    Sharing is caring :)
     
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    The point is!!!!! About the discussion of how and why your taste has changed. The benefits, and what the point of chastity is, are clear to most of us.

    What brought about the change? Was came first the change in taste or the cage? For me it was the change in my taste in porn that led me to the cage. Egg before Chicken.
     
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    I don't watch much porn when I'm in chastity. On the one hand, I like being teased and frustrated. But I've found that, with chastity having been part of our lives for so long, my penis seems to know better than to attempt to get hard. Unless it's my wife teasing me, or getting to watch and experience her orgasms, which always arouses me more than anything.

    When I'm not in chastity I watch a lot of humiliation and femdom POV stuff. When I watch regular porn it is almost always censored or soft core, since I'm not allowed to see female genitalia or anus. I do sometimes turn on hardcore porn though, because I really like looking at big cocks. I just have to avert my eyes when they show explicit female nudity. It's fun when I turn it on with my wife there, because she and I both get turned on by the big cocks, and then she sits on my face and I don't have to worry about seeing anything I shouldn't, while she might be kind enough to describe it for me. And she almost always decides she needs to feel a "real cock" inside her, so she has me get the huge dildo out of my nightstand.
     
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    It happens; preferences can change, even in porn. I used to watch porn where women had to have huge boobs or lesbian porn. I don't know what it was knitted with, but it turned me on insanely. Maybe there was such a period. Recently, my preferences have changed, and now I really like live porn. Beautiful girls masturbate in front of the camera, and there is no script. It's just damn exciting and addictive. I got hooked on this kind of porn thanks to vidsofcams.com. Now I can't watch any other porn. In general, I hope I will have a woman soon, and I will quit porn.
     
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    My taste in porn has definitely changed to a more femdom side, I still enjoy porn caged or uncaged. And we watch together too sometimes just it's not femdom stuff.
     
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    Well I've always liked femdom, solo and lesbian porn, and I still do, so that hasn't changed. I enjoyed chastity porn and literotical before I followed through with actually buying a device.

    Im currently self locked(under strict rules, can't just let myself out), so being extremely horny and lacking someone to tease me, I still tend to really enjoy it.

    I suppose what has changed is that I've become a lot more fixated on other people's orgasms, and the sounds of sex. I will watch lots of cumshots and imagine the sensation. I've been listening to a lot of ASMR, especially high sensitivity vaginal asmr, or the sounds of close up PiV.

    I guess before I primarily got off on the idea of being dominated/tortured, but once Im in that state by default the hottest thing is to increase the intensity of it by emphasizing what is being denied.
     
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    My porn taste haven't changed. But I do look at less of it now.

    When I do look at porn the objective has changed. It's not to get off anymore. It's to gather ideas.
     
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    I've always like the premise of Femdom porn. But most is so poorly done that it's blahhhh

    I've found that gay BDSM porn is much more intense and raw. But even it is getting softer and blahhh

    I guess I just don't care for much of it these days.

    But then again one of the things about chastity is to make us not want to wank and watch porn. So I guess between the poor quality and the Chasity I'm on track.
     
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    Whats the use of porn when i cant reach out to the dick and play along with it..? Once its engorged and headed nowhere, the brain will send a signal to unerect it.. porn has always been part of me since puberty..my first visual porn was a nude madonna on the center page of penthouse.. a dirty mag was hard to come by at least in my part of the world… next was the video cassette.. later was lots of soft/hard porn in vcds.. where women are mostly degraded.. in college i stumbled upon femdom.. ok maybe that was the life changing element for me..where women are extolled and exercised full control over the man’s desire and her demands to be pleasured and rights to instill discipline and punishment.. now my porn is my wife desires to be fulfilled and pleasured and her pursuits of sexual freedom…
     
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