Amazing Idea For Couples!

I’ve been at this a very long time.

You’re not the first. But you’re also not the last.

Personally I think it’s super hot and I hope to hear updates on it.

 

Better still, give someone else the keys and you'll both be winners ;-)

 

What is that belt? Where is it from? Is it silicone?

 

Sorry, each to their own of course, but why would you want to deprive your K/H, or yourself from enjoying their wonderful orgasms?

 

I must be an idiot... couldn't find a definite price for this belt. Found instructions on how to order & the suggestion of a tip for the individuals assistance in placing the order & shipping it but, no actual price for the belt.

 

that is a great device!

 

That looks like a great device .. can you share the link

 

Almost think I like this

 

@tinydick,

More power to you. I guess if you're both on board with the idea and it's done in a mutually agreeable way, that's fine. But it wouldn't be for us.

One of the direct benefits of my Lovely Wife & Keyholder keeping me locked up and Her holding my key is that the decision for us to become intimate is 100% Her choice. From beginning to end, and regardless of the level of play, She is in charge. I do enhance things by doing particular tasks She's enjoyed before without Her guidance. Most of the time She appreciates them, but other time She will just tell me "No", and instruct me as to exactly what SHE needs me to do for Her to reach Her climax.

But our dynamic is different than yours. I'm locked up longterm (689 days, 24/7 as I type this, without an orgasm) and will probably be kept locked by Her indefinitely.

To be honest, at our age (we're early 60's), I might have some concerns about Her being locked up in chastity. My main concern is that She might decide She doesn't NEED PIV or any other sexual attention after being chaste for a period of time. Before we started this lockup and began working on our FLR relationship, She often would not be receptive to any type of sexual play or intimacy. She said it was "my fault" for not meeting Her needs, and I won't debate that here. But the thing is, She had no problem going several MONTHS without any sexual contact or even intimacy between us. A kiss "Good Morning" and a kiss "Good Night". That was it. My concern is if She did it then, She could do it again. She also has a pretty competitive and stubborn side to Her and She might decide to do everything possible to show me how long She can remain locked! She might insist that I don't unlock Her! Where we are now in our relationship, we have our intimate time just about every evening where I rub & massage Her, and several mornings throughout the week as well. She has at least 3 - 4 orgasms each week depending upon Her wants and needs. Sometimes having 2 or more in one day. She hasn't done THAT since She was in Her early 30's!!! I wouldn't want to risk changing THAT aspect of our relationship at all.

I know the way we practice chastity isn't for everyone, either. There are all sorts of ways to incorporate chastity into a loving relationship, and it's great that you found this way to experiment with. I hope it works for you. I DO like the suggestion of @Disciplined Boyfriend to have someone else hold the keys. Like, maybe, Her bull?!?! Then HE would decide which of you would be unlocked and when. Now THAT is a scenario I might be able to get into.

Good Luck,

~subrick

 

Female belts are much less functional than male belts.

 

I'm not sure it's my place to give my two cents on the matter, but the bottom picture looks like it might be the better option. It seems to be more minimalistic, which means it will be less clunky in practical life and easier to clean even while still wearing it