Well, Loctober went well. Then there was no-November. Still locked and no orgasm. Then came December. 92 days. This has been the longest I've gone with out an orgasm. January came but I didn't. Couldn't talk my way out. Febuary is here and I again asked about getting released. Was told that if I play my cards right, I might find relief on Valentines day. Thats 137 days. I've never been so excited about Valentine's day
Now that you've been locked for so long, do you really want to ruin it all with a 20 second orgasm? Btw, did she say WHICH Valentine's Day she had in mind? You know there is one every year, right?
I have been a chronic masturbator for my entire adult life. My high libido has led me to desire sex with my wife daily. If I don't get any action with her, I masturbate once or twice a day. Since menopause hit 12 years ago and her libido dropped to below zero, that's a lot of masturbation. We all know that what happens then, my interest and attention to her went to nothing. The cage corrected all of that. The past 2 years caged have totally changed my marriage. With being released every 3 or 4 weeks for the best orgasms ever, I have been able to manage. The occasional 60 day marathons are terrible. The one time I went 90 days I thought I would explode. If I don't get out soon, I'm gonna loose it. Fingers crossed and on my best behavior
So 90 days is your previous record, and you're now up to 126 days (assuming you got a quick last one in on Sept 30th) and it could go to 137 days (assuming that she meant this Valentine's Day), wow! That's quite a jump. You haven't found that your needs have changed over the last 2 years? I would think that, as you come to appreciate the benefits of being locked up, you would crave that more than an orgasm. When you do get to orgasm, is it always a full orgasm rather than a ruined one? If it's full, how does the drop feel for you?
Congratulations on what sounds like a great dynamic! As the lockup times get longer, you may consider experimenting with a wand massager against your Cage for a ruined orgasm treat occasionally. It's good couples time, and for many guys it can take the edge off without getting that post orgasm drop.
If you manage to orgasm in the cage using a wand, does that count as ruined, or do you have to stop the wand at just the right time to avoid the drop?
For me it's a spectrum. Full release outside the cage and there's a big drop. Wand vibration to completion while in the cage 'takes the edge off', but I'm still attentive and fairly horny. Wand removed just before release in the cage and there is almost no relief, and the feeling of ejaculate pumping out without any "orgasm release feeling" sometimes makes me more wound up and horny than before (but often it leaves me in a state to go again immediately if my KH wishes)
So @FinaleFino, today is 100 days, how does it feel? And re-reading your original message, she said you "might find relief" on Valentine's day, and it occurs to me that she might be boing a bit coy here, because there other ways to get relief other than just an orgasm.