Practicing denial without a partner

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    #1 DenialIsTheNewOrgasm, Jan 30, 2022
    I currently do not have a partner/ keyholder but still engage in orgasm denial. I'm not exactly sure why. Maybe it's because I enjoy the intensity of the build-up. Technically, I could masturbate daily.

    I used to self-lock before, but normally, it was always one period of denial followed by weeks of daily orgasms. Now I deny myself, after a while I allow myself an orgasm, and then I go back to denial. Sometimes I use a cage, sometimes not.

    Anyone with similar experiences?
     
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    #2 Chaz69, Feb 2, 2022
    Have you tried locking the key in a timed lock, thus forcing yourself to be locked for a period of time? That could be a better experience than how currently you know you could unlock at any time. Here's one that you can lock for 41 days: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XP2ZP6P/
     
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    #3 chastitysubohio, Feb 2, 2022
    Pretty similar to me. I will try for long periods of locking or at best denial, then spend a few days to weeks jerking off every day. I tend to go longer with encouragement
     
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    #4 MtnViper, Feb 2, 2022
    I would guess we need to learn how to experience orgasm without penile stimulation, or design a male chastity device that locks automatically after one orgasm, once every 30 days, or some programmable time. Perhaps a glans cap that only exposes it for a set time before closing back up.

    Unfortunately, I'm finding I can at times experience orgasm with little or no physical stimulation, after long periods of not masturbating.
     
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    #5 LesterBallard, Feb 2, 2022
    I suspect this is a very common approach on here. Hope it continues to go well for you.
     
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    #6 DenialIsTheNewOrgasm, Feb 2, 2022
    Thank you, but I actually don't like to be in chastity too much. If I go to the gym, the cage comes off. I could also easily orgasm in my cage, so it is not really preventing me. My denial is all mentally, which makes it easier and harder at the same time ^^
     
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    #7 DenialIsTheNewOrgasm, Feb 2, 2022
    Yes, now is the first time I'm actually able to deny myself after a long denial period. Good progress.
     
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