I got asked today and it is a really good question. Common. So I'll put it here for anyone else that is curious and then I can say, hey just check out my blog. So. The reasons: Despite the great person you've been, all you've done for people over the years, people instantly forget. You are not him anymore. You are this new thing they don't like. Many women do not see your as a real woman. Many guys do not see you as a real woman, but you're neither a man. That actually does make bathroom choices difficult. Both parties don't want you in there. It's expensive. It's lonely. You will get bathed in attention on the internet but these people would be embarrassed to be seen with you in public. It's not that these are good reasons to stop your transition. But completely honest, it was enough for me. My world was falling apart in front of me. Confidence is higher, sex drive is better, and well I'm me, I don't think many ever liked that. Regardless, this is not a warning. Those with the courage to stay on their transition journey I applaud. This was my experience, doesn't mean it will be yours. Some live very happy lives with a great support system. And find what they were looking for. For me? No. Why popular online but not in real life? You know, I think all alphas are a little gay. It's a turn for them to see someone lose their masculinity. Also many betas want to live through your journey and see how it goes for you. Like a test subject. Some just want another reason to jerk off. I've seen Dr. Drew tell trans they are real woman through a shit eating grin and then found a reason to show a pic of his bod from the last time he was at the gym. I don't know. It's weird. Keep doing what you're doing, again, this is not a discouragement. It is my perspective. Keep doing what you are doing, you are courageous.
Just about as many people like you now. At least you could have a decent set of tits. Plus I could have pimped your only fans... Just saying.
Meaningful relationships, Ashes. I crave meaningful connections. Not to say trans don't have them. Just I didn't.
Meaning is based off of what you apply to it. I would have been more than a great pimp. Your fa-fa-fa- friend.
Hey guys. Jig is up. Lucy caught us. We're not trolls. Rather, just found a different way to express an idea. Au revoir Ricky Bobby.
Why there is hope for others? I've been thinking about this, doesn't mean I'm right obviously. I think in the world of chastity with just these two options (of course there's more but I'm only talking on this right now) Venn diagram, you have sissification on one side. On the other, trans, and then a middle group which is a little of both. But to want one thing doesn't necessarily mean you want the other. I look at sissification as a willingness to be objectified and outside the role of regular relationships, kind of just used. Couples might practice as a kink, role reversal can be hot, dress in some kinky clothes and get fucked by her strap on, to put it bluntly, is kind of how it goes. But obviously, this does not make one trans. NOR does make it wrong. Getcha' some For myself, my mind through the filter of estrogen started wanting, as stated above, more meaningful connections than the ones I was making. But again, there are some that share both traits. I think the porn industry has largely given stereotypes to, well if you're trans and into chastity you must want to do x y and z. All the time. Everyday. And for some it's the best way to make money. For me, wearing regular casual clothes, not to be expected to dress as a stripper out to the grocery store. I mean, there's children in there, come on. Save it for the bedroom. Television isn't always kind either. Maybe an extremist gets on the news throwing a fit in a game stop or RuPaul lands a new show. I am jazz again jumps into an extreme situation following a child. Can we get just like, a regular, well mannered adult living a regular life on there doing good things? Not to say jazz doesn't, I'm not entirely familiar, it's just, you know why they did that show. This! I think is where the folly may lie in meeting on sites based off of kinks. You'd think it would be easy but really it's not. Not to say impossible. But, on a regular dating site that is trans friendly--meeting someone and introducing chastity later might be easier. I felt like the first part was a lot of doom and gloom and hopefully this is more helpful to those who don't want to stop like I did. And maybe find someone? I never tried outside of the usual kink sites. You might have really good luck. People do meet. Get that person who's happy to have you and doesn't care what others think. Proud to walk by your side.