I am NewUser and I am from the Netherlands, in Europe: a small country between Belgium and Germany. My nickname is the contraction of New and User. New means I am new to this forum and User, because I am a User of this forum. I suggested to wear Chastity cage to my girlfriend and she agreed. We are both kinda vanilla, although we are only dating for 5 years now, so there is still much to explore. As she as well as I both are psychologists, we like to think about new ways to spice up our sex life while also taking care of our relationship in not yet explored ways (e.g. not a normal couples therapy). Until now, I am wearing my chastity cage for 2 months (with a looooot of breaks, avg. 2-3 days) and it's fun.