Chastity really is for Couples. It's a commitment. Chastity is marketed to trans poplr as trashy.

Trans/(TV/TS/, etc.) people learn chastity is a product (i.e. sex toy . It's usually cheap plastic sold alongside trashy lingerie worn alone or in a dirty motel. That is exactly how most men saw me fitting into their life. Even the sex toys. When some guy expressed an interest in me wearing a cage, sometimes the motives were purely degrading.

Looking back, I most men saw me as a dumb whore in pink and that's how I thought chastity meant in the real world.
The arrangements seemed to mostly were FWBs, etc. There was no possibility of a relationship with anybody.

I know it can be used in a healthy way. But how is mostly a mystery. I would love for somebody show me that much attention. Some of these women clearly take pride in keeping their husband in a cage. If I show up on Day 1 already in a little cage with a spare (just i case), Is that the worst possible person or the best? Did I just ruin it?

 

Is that why you wanted to send me pictures of your dick? Sorry. cage. dick. Whatever.