Hello everyone! i am very happy to have found this great site, and am grateful already to know i am among "my own". i have learned a lot simply by reading the forums and hope to participate to the extent that i can. i am a divorced "Mr." mom with three kids in a shared custody arrangement. My daughter is with me all the time and the two boys rotate back and forth. i purchased a CB6000s a few months ago and started wearing it seriously about a month ago. i could only go a few days at a time at first, but ended up making it three weeks before i removed it. i am putting it back on today. the only issue i have had is the early morning pain caused by unwanted erections that makes me have to put my clittie under cold water to make the pain stop. That has affected my sleep and i hope that will end at some point(?). i plan to keep the device on continuously except when i am cycling to work, which i need to do for my fitness and to maintain my excuse for my smooth legs. i hope to find a Mistress but have not had much luck so far. Well, thanks for reading! Have a fantastic day! maggie
maggie, welcome and thank you for that fine introduction. you don't need to justify having smooth legs, it is just the feeble male ego that tells you that. No one is likely to say anything to you, unless of course you are a lumber jack who wears short shorts with a flannel shirt to work. It is the male perception that everyone is noticing. Again welcome and thank You for sharing. cynthia
Thank you for your kind words of welcome. i do agree that i need not explain my smooth legs to strangers, but for my kids and coworkers it is a comfort to them to know it is because i am cycling. Unfortunately (today) my L'Oreal tanning lotion has not worked out so well. lol. maggie
Hi maggie, I'll second the notion that you don't need an excuse to shave you legs. I'm not even into cross-dressing, and I prefer my legs hairless. I, too, use the excuse that it's for cycling. However, I also had really dry scaly skin when my legs were furry. Now that I shave them, it's more comfortable to put lotion on them, and my legs no longer look like furry alligator skin! lol Regarding getting past the night time pain, you will. I find that when I'm wearing regularly, my body eventually adapts and my night time erections get less intense. I still get discomfort, but not the "raging, balls are being torn off" kind of hard-ons I got at first. Best of luck, and welcome to the mansion! mikecb
Thank you Mike Thanks for your words of encouragement Mike. i do prefer to keep it on 24/7 if possible but the lost sleep got to me the last time around. i have put it on today so wish me the best...i hope to go a month if i can. maggie
Hi maggie, welcome to the Mansion and thank you for the nice introduction. I am sure your body will get used to chastity device locked on over night. You might not fully lose the nightly erections but they won't wake you up once your body has adjusted. Hugs, maid katrin
Hi maggie and welcome to the Mansion. While your body may get used to being locked in your chastity device over night. You might not fully lose the nightly erections but not every one of them wake you up once your body has adjusted. i find that for the ones that won't stop, it's best to get up and pee, it really helps. Good luck and again Welcome.
Thank you for your warm welcome, pantyboy. i was locked up last night (and plugged) and did have to get up for a quick, cold shower over my cb to get things back under control. i agree, i think peeing is the first trick. In this case, it was beyond that and well past the pleasure threshold. i am 24 hours into my chastity. i am being interviewed by a Domme who had me submit what i thought should be my list of rules yesterday. she had previously expressed that she did not like how the cb looked. So, i bought some pink Krylon spray paint that is made for plastic and asked her if she wanted me to try painting it. Has anyone done this? I think it could turn out great...am just worried about scratches and things later. Have a great day. maggie
:welcome: maggie! So good to have you here and see you settling in nicely. Let us know if you need anything around the site.