Why bother with chastity. I’m wearing mine and can achieve orgasm without touching my dick. I just massage the root of my clit in the perinea area , from behind, and I achieve actually more satisfying orgasms. So, better orgasms when I’m supposed to be denied any ? Disappointing.
The root of my cock. Between the anus and the scrotum. You will feel the urethra in the middle and on each side there is the muscles(?) to your cock. When you’re aroused just rub them back and forth. It makes me cum.
Well I wear a cage because of a lack of will power among other things. Otherwise I wouldn’t need a cage and I would wilfully forget about my cock. And no cage would be necessary.... lol
Tried. So many things. I’m up to 5 caged now. Not a fan anymore. Will you delete my profile ? I’m not a valuable asset to this blog anymore. Tks.
Rubbing your taint and getting an orgasm...that's some real superpower shit. I assume you are getting off on your prostate being stimulated. May need your KH to simply peg you into submission.
Short of sitting in a tub and filling it with cement, "cheating" isn't really the issue. Locks keep honest people honest, and cages and covers and other devices are trappings; they're more symbols. What they symbolize, is really up to you. Chastity is very open to interpretation. Saying one can't help but cheat on one's own decision means one isn't very committed to the decision, or perhaps doesn't think there's a problem to begin with...and that's okay too. It's a bit like running to the police, however, and begging them to lock you up because you can't help but steal or vandalize. The truth is that even in jail, one can steal and vandalize, and even in a chastity cage, the real lock is you. Discipline is self-discipline. You can share a key with someone, but you can't shed personal responsibility. Never blame the device. Never blame the keyholder, or lack thereof. I'm sitting in a hotel room right now, with a cheap chinese stainless miniature cage locked in place. The keys are sitting on the side table next to me (I sent a picture of the keys to my wife after I locked it on, after arriving at the hotel). With or without the keys, I can stimulate, access, etc. But that isn't really the point. If one is really desperate to never again be able to cause a sexual release, then perhaps one would seek a penectomy and eliminate the problem. But most who are doing chastity don't want that. They want the illusion, the trappings, the symbol. They want the stimulation. They want the game. They want the lifestyle. They want what they want, and each one may want something different, which is just fine. There's no law which demands chastity. It's up to each man to pursue that path upon which he feels driven to travel. Nobody is preventing him from getting off the path, cage or not, and no one is preventing him from taking an off ramp to an amusement park. But he he goes there, why bother with the cage, or chastity at all?