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    Hi one and all, I would like to say hello, and what a great place this is. A little bit about me: mid 30s TGirl from the uk, into chastity (on me, and others) - I'm in a long term relationship, so sorry, I'm only looking for friends/advice etc.

    Im into many other kinks/fetishes. Currently have a cb6000 but looking for advice on metal one. (Will post separately), but that's why I have an account.
     
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    Hello and welcome. It’s an interesting life, chastity. For metal cages check out Mature Metal. Amazing craftsmanship and customer service. If looking for a starting point ebay has tons of cheap options but I believe in the long run once you find what works best going custom is the way to go.
    Good luck!!!
     
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    Hi Mel and welcome. I'm also from the UK. This is the best site. There's no other can compare. I wear avarirty of cages including metal. If you want advice I've been into this for over 11 years so hit me up. I promise I won't hit on you.. Well I can't! I'm locked :):lockkey:
     
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    Welcome and enjoy!
     
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    Welcome, enjoy and peace for tou!!! :)
     
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    Welcome to our community and hope you enjoy being part of it.
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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    Hi Mel and welcome to CM
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Hi all, thank you for your kind words of welcome :)
     
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    Hi, Melissa, welcome to the site. I'm a transgender woman, not sure if we're exactly the same. I have seen T-girl defined in different ways by different people. But I am certain there is plenty of overlap in our gender identities.

    I used to be quite active here, but as HRT did its thing and my sex drive and interests changed, I kind of lost interest in chastity. I still hang out here because there are some great people here and also because I do remember how beneficial chastity was for me. I like to contribute where I can and help newbies or just engage in interesting conversation around here.

    I hope you find this site informative and enjoyable.
     
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    Hi welcome to CM
     
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    Hi Shepherdsflock, I am a pre-hormone (but hopefully by only a few months) MtF individual, been living full time as a woman for pretty much a year, but been wanting to transition since I was 12 (tried before, but had trans conversion therapy, and, due to my childhood, I didn't accept my own gender identity or needs for a long time!). Ive had hair removal (electrolysis) and will have more, hoping the hormones will change me and my body. Suffer from gender dysphoria and wish I had been born female. Would like to get many different plastic surgeries (breasts, face, voice, adams apple, hips/arse).

    My main area of uncertain is around my penis. I am unsure what I want to happen (for Tgirl, I have a strange relationship with downstairs - mainly a stress/dysphoria releasing relationship). I appreciate hormones will likely shrink it, and prevent some erections, but I am hoping it wont shrink it completely, and hoping I will still be able to get sexual gratification and have penetrative sex (even if I need to use Viagra). When it comes to chastity, I do appreciate that it may change.

    Though, having said all of that, I haven't ruled out full SRS and then a female device (though conscious Id need to dilate often). My main concern though, is the ability to still orgasm, during and post transition. Have a appointment soon with a doc to ask all of this, and have been doing some research.

    Sorry if I have overshared in a public setting.
     
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    Having read the above all I can do is wish you the very best going forward, whether that be remaining as a T Girl or full SRS. I truly believe that those who are considering SRS or living as you are, are very brave people.
     
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    Thank you Charles
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion!
     
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    Seconded
     
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    Hi and welcome to the mansion, its a great place here for advice and support your always welcome to message me if you want I am also a Trans Girl xxx
     
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